Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hitting a homer

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Yo, I got this girl, she's mine man, next time I see her it's going down. But she's a virgin. Is there anyway to give her pleasure cause I heard it's hard for girl virgins to have a good time during sex because it hurts them. I want to make the love to her so good shell think screwing anyone else is boring. Any tips?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by eba
Yo, I got this girl, she's mine man, next time I see her it's going down. But she's a virgin. Is there anyway to give her pleasure cause I heard it's hard for girl virgins to have a good time during sex because it hurts them. I want to make the love to her so good shell think screwing anyone else is boring. Any tips?
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don't be totally concerned with pleasing her. Just make her as comfortable as possible. So unless your a pimp you shouldn't worry about being her best time./
 
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Re: Re: Hitting a homer

Originally posted by Vincent
don't be totally concerned with pleasing her. Just make her as comfortable as possible. So unless your a pimp you shouldn't worry about being her best time./
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*Chokes on water* What!?

Look, it's her first time. Yeah, it'll hurt her at first (usually,) but that doesn't mean you have to sacrifice pleasing her. She can be comfortable as a massage patient. But, unless she gets pleasure, why should she like sex? Take things slowy and try to make things as enjoyable for her as possible. I don't have time, but there is a post on here about making a virgins first time good.
 
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Take it slow. Lots of foreplay action. I suggest going down on her to get her off and make you seem like a really good lover. If it's her first time, she'll be tight and most girls will feel some pain for a while, but most start to enjoy it after a bit. Make sure she is warmed up and turned on. There are plenty of sex guides on this site, follow them.

Even if you do real well, she probably won't think screwing someone else is boring since she's never screwed anyone else before. Just make her really enjoy it and she'll be begging for more later on.
 
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just cause shes "yours" doesnt mean shell do anything you want....she might, but she might not.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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