"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hit something inside my girl

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So we were getting it on the other day. Pretty intense she orgasmed, so I went really deep and hard. Pretty rough with her.

I kinda smacked into something up there and she winced in pain.

Asked if she was okay, carried on. Same level of intensity, it happened again.

Smacked into something and felt my penis ping off it. She winced again, obviously hurting, asked if she was okay and told her to get in top of me instead.

So changed position , she rode me at a slower pace and everything was fine.

She's short like a foot shorter than me and tight. Been together like a year and a half and I don't this recall this happening before with her.

Day later she's had the mother of all periods and is bleeding loads, abnormal amounts.

She also had a coil fitted a few weeks ago. So I'm kinda concerned, she's downplaying it all.

Just wondering what I smacked into , should I be concerned , and should I not be so rough with her in future now she has a coil?

Obviously her health and wellbeing is of upmost important to me and I don't want to damage/hurt her.

So trying to understand what I smacked into up there. Can you guys shed any light?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The coil is basically 'T' shaped, with the 'stalk' pointing down, and a string (for extraction) connected to the bottom, which hangs out of the cervix.
Sounds like you've hit the cervix - I've done that loads of times - If she's short enough, you maybe squished the cervix back far enough to hit bottom end where the string attaches.
Or possibly, her coil isn't fitted quite right...???

Oh, and a coil can cause heavier than normal periods, especially the first few until she adjusts.
 

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Her pu5sy is red, my balls are blue, guess I've got the Cervix Blues...
 

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+1 cervix

and if it was hard the device might be protruding from her cervix a little in a way it should not be. In an UID, there is always a tail that hangs out of the cervix a little it is used to “reset” the position of the device.

I can usually tell if a gal has an UID as I can feel the string. Those things are evil, and frankly cause a number of problems.

The biggest offender is called a Mirena, it’s a plastic UID that’s impregnated with hormones it releases. I find UID implanted women have nothing but issues with them.

Some women have reported mood changes, headaches, acne, and breast tenderness.

In short she should see her gynecologist.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Probably cervix. When I’m in deep I sometimes can feel things I call ‘structures’. Some girls find it uncomfortable. Others are fine with it.
 

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I'm trying to not knock oyu but damn is this the first time you ever hit a girls cervix or what we used to call "th ewall" growing up..? Most womens vaginas arent that deep homie.. I always have to try not to go in fully to NOT hit her wall so hard

and as far as the IUD, It sounds like she prob just got that **** installed not so long ago. To me that sh.t is sitll weird to this day.. how about women just learn not to be wh.ores and not have to take birth control and get **** implanted in their vaginas?
 

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+1 cervix

and if it was hard the device might be protruding from her cervix a little in a way it should not be. In an UID, there is always a tail that hangs out of the cervix a little it is used to “reset” the position of the device.

I can usually tell if a gal has an UID as I can feel the string. Those things are evil, and frankly cause a number of problems.

The biggest offender is called a Mirena, it’s a plastic UID that’s impregnated with hormones it releases. I find UID implanted women have nothing but issues with them.

Some women have reported mood changes, headaches, acne, and breast tenderness.

In short she should see her gynecologist.
Exactly. When I was around 21 I ended up hitting the lady I was messing with at the time cervix/uid and had to end up taking her to the hospital. Was a very frustrating experience
 

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OP, you mentioned she’s a foot shorter than you and tight. Vaginas aren’t the same depth in every female. They vary…
If you’re longer than she needs to be physically comfortable with, you two may be sexually incompatible unless certain measures are taken to stop bottoming out on her Cervix. Came across this same issue with a shorter girl once.…
 

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OP, you mentioned she’s a foot shorter than you and tight. Vaginas aren’t the same depth in every female. They vary…
If you’re longer than she needs to be physically comfortable with, you two may be sexually incompatible unless certain measures are taken to stop bottoming out on her Cervix. Came across this same issue with a shorter girl once.…
Exactly this. The chick I was messing with was 4'11 and I'm 6'1
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pro tip: It’s all about angles gentlemen.

If you’re hitting her cervix, and she doesn’t enjoy it, which some women actually do enjoy, then angle down towards her ass in missionary, if you’re lucky, you’ll hit her cul-de-sac, which contains a bundle of nerves that is hyper sensitive she’ll go crazy. Alternatively, angle upwards towards her belly button. This hits the anterior fornix again an area inside the vagina that has a huge bundle of nerves that produce a great deal of pleasure for the woman. On the way to the fornix you’re be hitting the well celebrated g-spot of yore, if you’re angled sufficiently, just about anyone (except micros) can hit the g-spot, so don’t be discouraged if you’re on the more modest side.

In both angles, there is a minimum size requirement on an average sized woman in order to hit the spots that I’m talking about. But the main reason for this post is to show you how to avoid a sensitive cervix anyway, ergo, if you experience this, you’ve already met 80% of the requirement.
 
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I'm trying to not knock oyu but damn is this the first time you ever hit a girls cervix or what we used to call "th ewall" growing up..? Most womens vaginas arent that deep homie.. I always have to try not to go in fully to NOT hit her wall so hard

and as far as the IUD, It sounds like she prob just got that **** installed not so long ago. To me that sh.t is sitll weird to this day.. how about women just learn not to be wh.ores and not have to take birth control and get **** implanted in their vaginas?
Interesting stuff.

How long is your penis in inches when erect?

I measured mine once, it comes in just below 7 inch. Yeah man, first time I can recall smashing into something like this. It kinda felt weird, like a ridge I pinged off of and went deeper.
 

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Pro tip: It’s all about angles gentlemen.

If you’re hitting her cervix, and she doesn’t enjoy it, which some women actually do enjoy, then angle down towards her ass in missionary, if you’re lucky, you’ll hit her cul-de-sac, which contains a bundle of nerves that is hyper sensitive she’ll go crazy. Alternatively, angle upwards towards her belly button. This hits the anterior fornix again an area inside the vagina that has a huge bundle of nerves that produce a great deal of pleasure for the woman. On the way to the fornix you’re be hitting the well celebrated g-spot of yore, if you’re angled sufficiently, just about anyone (except micros) can hit the g-spot, so don’t be discouraged if you’re on the more modest side.

In both angles, there is a minimum size requirement on an average sized woman in order to hit the spots that I’m talking about. But the main reason for this post is to show you how to avoid a sensitive cervix anyway, ergo, if you experience this, you’ve already met 80% of the requirement.
Well I never!!!! Never really got this technical, my approach to sex has always been wing it and do what feels good and reading the women, bouncing off how the women responds.

Lol you should write a book!
 
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