"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Histrionic Personality Disorder

GunShow85

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Anybody date an hpd? Lots of borderline stories but this seems like a different flavor of crazy.

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Pre-dating red flags:
1. Sexually aggressive
2. Very flirtatious
3. Very complimentary
4. Cryptic warnings from others
5. Beautiful
6. Histrionic personality style
7. Drug/Alchohol abuse
8. First hug she ever gives you is a little TOO close and gives the impression that "she REALLY likes me"
9. Chronically single

Dating/relationship red flags
1. Flirtation is indiscriminate, with everyone
2. Blatantly seeks praise
3. Brings up other men often
4. Male fan club: texting, hanging out with
5. Admits to promiscuous past
6. Admits to abusive/troublesome past
7. Cycling hot/cold behavior
8. Constant texting/communication
9. Words and actions don't add up (lies)
10.Unable to take criticism
11.Relationships with significantly older and/or significantly younger men
12.Indiscriminate use of "I love you"
13.Gut feeling that something isn't right
14. She's hugging everyone the same way she first hugged you.
15. Dissapeaing acts
16. Feels too good to be true
17. Childish
18. Childhood issues (usually w mother)
19. Highly concerned with appearance, brand names, etc
20. Impulsive behavior (alcohol, spending, DWI)
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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kronreiff

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All of the above and then some. I plated one of these parasites and dumped her lame azz after the 2nd fvck. I could see the writing on the wall. STAY AWAY at all costs!
 

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Sounds like a female DJ minus certain extremes
 

Infern0

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No, I don't tend to go for the "obviously hot" girls which I think is what HPD girls tend to be.

My BPD ex had one as a best friend though, she had a rich boyfriend she cheated on several times a week, while extracting cash and gifts from him with no ****s given, while my BPD ex would swear she's a "good person"

Typical personality disorder **** show
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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