"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Histrionic Personality Disorder

GunShow85

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Anybody date an hpd? Lots of borderline stories but this seems like a different flavor of crazy.

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Pre-dating red flags:
1. Sexually aggressive
2. Very flirtatious
3. Very complimentary
4. Cryptic warnings from others
5. Beautiful
6. Histrionic personality style
7. Drug/Alchohol abuse
8. First hug she ever gives you is a little TOO close and gives the impression that "she REALLY likes me"
9. Chronically single

Dating/relationship red flags
1. Flirtation is indiscriminate, with everyone
2. Blatantly seeks praise
3. Brings up other men often
4. Male fan club: texting, hanging out with
5. Admits to promiscuous past
6. Admits to abusive/troublesome past
7. Cycling hot/cold behavior
8. Constant texting/communication
9. Words and actions don't add up (lies)
10.Unable to take criticism
11.Relationships with significantly older and/or significantly younger men
12.Indiscriminate use of "I love you"
13.Gut feeling that something isn't right
14. She's hugging everyone the same way she first hugged you.
15. Dissapeaing acts
16. Feels too good to be true
17. Childish
18. Childhood issues (usually w mother)
19. Highly concerned with appearance, brand names, etc
20. Impulsive behavior (alcohol, spending, DWI)
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kronreiff

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All of the above and then some. I plated one of these parasites and dumped her lame azz after the 2nd fvck. I could see the writing on the wall. STAY AWAY at all costs!
 

dutchmaster

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Sounds like a female DJ minus certain extremes
 

Infern0

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No, I don't tend to go for the "obviously hot" girls which I think is what HPD girls tend to be.

My BPD ex had one as a best friend though, she had a rich boyfriend she cheated on several times a week, while extracting cash and gifts from him with no ****s given, while my BPD ex would swear she's a "good person"

Typical personality disorder **** show
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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