Anybody date an hpd? Lots of borderline stories but this seems like a different flavor of crazy.
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Pre-dating red flags:
1. Sexually aggressive
2. Very flirtatious
3. Very complimentary
4. Cryptic warnings from others
5. Beautiful
6. Histrionic personality style
7. Drug/Alchohol abuse
8. First hug she ever gives you is a little TOO close and gives the impression that "she REALLY likes me"
9. Chronically single
Dating/relationship red flags
1. Flirtation is indiscriminate, with everyone
2. Blatantly seeks praise
3. Brings up other men often
4. Male fan club: texting, hanging out with
5. Admits to promiscuous past
6. Admits to abusive/troublesome past
7. Cycling hot/cold behavior
8. Constant texting/communication
9. Words and actions don't add up (lies)
10.Unable to take criticism
11.Relationships with significantly older and/or significantly younger men
12.Indiscriminate use of "I love you"
13.Gut feeling that something isn't right
14. She's hugging everyone the same way she first hugged you.
15. Dissapeaing acts
16. Feels too good to be true
17. Childish
18. Childhood issues (usually w mother)
19. Highly concerned with appearance, brand names, etc
20. Impulsive behavior (alcohol, spending, DWI)
Copied & pasted from another site....
Pre-dating red flags:
1. Sexually aggressive
2. Very flirtatious
3. Very complimentary
4. Cryptic warnings from others
5. Beautiful
6. Histrionic personality style
7. Drug/Alchohol abuse
8. First hug she ever gives you is a little TOO close and gives the impression that "she REALLY likes me"
9. Chronically single
Dating/relationship red flags
1. Flirtation is indiscriminate, with everyone
2. Blatantly seeks praise
3. Brings up other men often
4. Male fan club: texting, hanging out with
5. Admits to promiscuous past
6. Admits to abusive/troublesome past
7. Cycling hot/cold behavior
8. Constant texting/communication
9. Words and actions don't add up (lies)
10.Unable to take criticism
11.Relationships with significantly older and/or significantly younger men
12.Indiscriminate use of "I love you"
13.Gut feeling that something isn't right
14. She's hugging everyone the same way she first hugged you.
15. Dissapeaing acts
16. Feels too good to be true
17. Childish
18. Childhood issues (usually w mother)
19. Highly concerned with appearance, brand names, etc
20. Impulsive behavior (alcohol, spending, DWI)
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