"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Histrionic Personality Disorder

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Anybody date an hpd? Lots of borderline stories but this seems like a different flavor of crazy.

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Pre-dating red flags:
1. Sexually aggressive
2. Very flirtatious
3. Very complimentary
4. Cryptic warnings from others
5. Beautiful
6. Histrionic personality style
7. Drug/Alchohol abuse
8. First hug she ever gives you is a little TOO close and gives the impression that "she REALLY likes me"
9. Chronically single

Dating/relationship red flags
1. Flirtation is indiscriminate, with everyone
2. Blatantly seeks praise
3. Brings up other men often
4. Male fan club: texting, hanging out with
5. Admits to promiscuous past
6. Admits to abusive/troublesome past
7. Cycling hot/cold behavior
8. Constant texting/communication
9. Words and actions don't add up (lies)
10.Unable to take criticism
11.Relationships with significantly older and/or significantly younger men
12.Indiscriminate use of "I love you"
13.Gut feeling that something isn't right
14. She's hugging everyone the same way she first hugged you.
15. Dissapeaing acts
16. Feels too good to be true
17. Childish
18. Childhood issues (usually w mother)
19. Highly concerned with appearance, brand names, etc
20. Impulsive behavior (alcohol, spending, DWI)
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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All of the above and then some. I plated one of these parasites and dumped her lame azz after the 2nd fvck. I could see the writing on the wall. STAY AWAY at all costs!
 
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Sounds like a female DJ minus certain extremes
 
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No, I don't tend to go for the "obviously hot" girls which I think is what HPD girls tend to be.

My BPD ex had one as a best friend though, she had a rich boyfriend she cheated on several times a week, while extracting cash and gifts from him with no ****s given, while my BPD ex would swear she's a "good person"

Typical personality disorder **** show
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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