"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hints your in the friend zone?

danny987

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what are some hints a girl gives you that your in the friend zone, or does that rule rule even apply that much in high school?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"i see you as a friend/brother"

talks to you about other guys she likes, guys she's messed around with, etc.
 

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Mechwarrior13 said:
"i see you as a friend/brother"

talks to you about other guys she likes, guys she's messed around with, etc.
alright thanks for those. there is this girl ive been talking to for like a year, but it doesnt seem like im in the the friends zone yet, but for the amount of time we've been talking you'd think we would be. so anybody else have any other hints?
 

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you can talk for a while and not land in the friendzone, it all depends on how you act. do you flirt with her and stuff?
 

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Mechwarrior13 said:
you can talk for a while and not land in the friendzone, it all depends on how you act. do you flirt with her and stuff?
yea i do, i feel like a retard for not already making a move, but thats what tomorrow is for:rock:
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HandyAndy said:
what about when she doesnt directly tell you she wants to be friends?
Well, if she doesn't directly tell you, but when you try she seems to not want to pursue more then friends, you get rid of her because she's most likely using you.
 

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yea i remember when i was an AFC the girl i liked used me all the time, but know hehe i actually start to use her and tease her alot, i can get almost anything i want from her now, and she's attracted to me, although sometimes she does become a little *****y, but i dont let it put me down, just don't do things that friends do,
For example don't go talk about life problems or about her old bf's, never let her take control over you, and most importantly don't pursue her, let her pursue you
 

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oh also always try to get into physical play, it's one of the best ways to flirt in high school, i just began noticing it in the beginning of the year, trip her, push her (not so rough though, just enough to where she moves) And to answer your question for girls the friend zone is the very most important thing girls do, i may only be a sophmore but i learned so much my freshman year, because i was in almost every girls friend zone 1st semester but 2nd semester i understood everything and just about everything begins to make sense, as of right now i am in no girls friend zone, because when girls tend to flirt with you sexually over and over, i dont really think that considers you as their friend
 

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Aint no ****ing hints, hoes do the same **** they do to their friends as they do to their boyfriends. MAKE A MOVE and see if you're in the "friend zone."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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