"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hints your in the friend zone?

danny987

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what are some hints a girl gives you that your in the friend zone, or does that rule rule even apply that much in high school?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"i see you as a friend/brother"

talks to you about other guys she likes, guys she's messed around with, etc.
 

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Mechwarrior13 said:
"i see you as a friend/brother"

talks to you about other guys she likes, guys she's messed around with, etc.
alright thanks for those. there is this girl ive been talking to for like a year, but it doesnt seem like im in the the friends zone yet, but for the amount of time we've been talking you'd think we would be. so anybody else have any other hints?
 

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you can talk for a while and not land in the friendzone, it all depends on how you act. do you flirt with her and stuff?
 

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Mechwarrior13 said:
you can talk for a while and not land in the friendzone, it all depends on how you act. do you flirt with her and stuff?
yea i do, i feel like a retard for not already making a move, but thats what tomorrow is for:rock:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HandyAndy said:
what about when she doesnt directly tell you she wants to be friends?
Well, if she doesn't directly tell you, but when you try she seems to not want to pursue more then friends, you get rid of her because she's most likely using you.
 

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yea i remember when i was an AFC the girl i liked used me all the time, but know hehe i actually start to use her and tease her alot, i can get almost anything i want from her now, and she's attracted to me, although sometimes she does become a little *****y, but i dont let it put me down, just don't do things that friends do,
For example don't go talk about life problems or about her old bf's, never let her take control over you, and most importantly don't pursue her, let her pursue you
 

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oh also always try to get into physical play, it's one of the best ways to flirt in high school, i just began noticing it in the beginning of the year, trip her, push her (not so rough though, just enough to where she moves) And to answer your question for girls the friend zone is the very most important thing girls do, i may only be a sophmore but i learned so much my freshman year, because i was in almost every girls friend zone 1st semester but 2nd semester i understood everything and just about everything begins to make sense, as of right now i am in no girls friend zone, because when girls tend to flirt with you sexually over and over, i dont really think that considers you as their friend
 

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Aint no ****ing hints, hoes do the same **** they do to their friends as they do to their boyfriends. MAKE A MOVE and see if you're in the "friend zone."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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