"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hints your in the friend zone?

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what are some hints a girl gives you that your in the friend zone, or does that rule rule even apply that much in high school?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"i see you as a friend/brother"

talks to you about other guys she likes, guys she's messed around with, etc.
 

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Mechwarrior13 said:
"i see you as a friend/brother"

talks to you about other guys she likes, guys she's messed around with, etc.
alright thanks for those. there is this girl ive been talking to for like a year, but it doesnt seem like im in the the friends zone yet, but for the amount of time we've been talking you'd think we would be. so anybody else have any other hints?
 

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you can talk for a while and not land in the friendzone, it all depends on how you act. do you flirt with her and stuff?
 

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Mechwarrior13 said:
you can talk for a while and not land in the friendzone, it all depends on how you act. do you flirt with her and stuff?
yea i do, i feel like a retard for not already making a move, but thats what tomorrow is for:rock:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HandyAndy said:
what about when she doesnt directly tell you she wants to be friends?
Well, if she doesn't directly tell you, but when you try she seems to not want to pursue more then friends, you get rid of her because she's most likely using you.
 

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yea i remember when i was an AFC the girl i liked used me all the time, but know hehe i actually start to use her and tease her alot, i can get almost anything i want from her now, and she's attracted to me, although sometimes she does become a little *****y, but i dont let it put me down, just don't do things that friends do,
For example don't go talk about life problems or about her old bf's, never let her take control over you, and most importantly don't pursue her, let her pursue you
 

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oh also always try to get into physical play, it's one of the best ways to flirt in high school, i just began noticing it in the beginning of the year, trip her, push her (not so rough though, just enough to where she moves) And to answer your question for girls the friend zone is the very most important thing girls do, i may only be a sophmore but i learned so much my freshman year, because i was in almost every girls friend zone 1st semester but 2nd semester i understood everything and just about everything begins to make sense, as of right now i am in no girls friend zone, because when girls tend to flirt with you sexually over and over, i dont really think that considers you as their friend
 

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Aint no ****ing hints, hoes do the same **** they do to their friends as they do to their boyfriends. MAKE A MOVE and see if you're in the "friend zone."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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