It always takes two to Tango doesn’t it…I walked away two days ago in post #101 and told him so. He replied and I did not respond.
Then he couldn't handle it and started at me again.
He seriously cannot get his mind off of me. I have an SS stalker.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.