You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah exactly the guy wearing the dildo was a star in a very famous sitcom. Besides he looked way better than the other guy other than being shorter (and the dildo), he had almost perfect body language and was just smooth. The other guy looked like an insecure bafoon. This proved nothing but that rich, famous and beign a smooth actor beats a typical guy.Dongfu said:Yeah, they dont show the part where he says Im bud from married with children. But funny as hell. Thanks.
I highly doubt very many girls in LA don't recognize him whether they mention it or not. Besides he's still not a bad looking guy other than being short. He was an actor for a long time since he was a child. He has very good presentation. Don't think for a minute that all his fame and fortune from such an early age wouldn't make him a natural.The Sperminator said:No if you go to Neil's myspace he even said that every time someone recognized Bud they wouldn't count it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mad Manic said:Simple, the shorter more goofy guy got in because he was less threatening, almost analogous to a gay guy approaching. He may got a number or whatever, but I HIGHLY doubt he'd be sexing any of the girls. At least if the tall guy does get some success, he's taken more seriously and as a sexual prospect rather than a 'goofy small friendly guy I met'.
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Yes I know that now after you said it (I wasn't aware he was famous etc) but as a general rule it's not unknown that the goofy unthreatening guy gets to talk to the girl whereas the more threatening guy doesn't. But it's usually in a platonic way. When the bigger guy knows he's in, he's usually IN because he's seen in a more sexual way. Saying that, the key is to get in often and be seen in a sexual light which usually isn't such a huge task if you're lucky in the gene pool. Then comes game and all that ... yawn.ketostix said:MM, they (Neil Strauss &Co., aka Style) didn't use a guy from a very famous TV sitcom that's been syndicated in reruns for several years for nothing. You could find plenty of other short, goofy nonthreatening guys. Style is a charlatan worse than Mystery.
Yep for those who don't know they are both washout kid actors from the 90's. The little guy was on "Married with Children" playing Bud Bundy, the taller guy was Parker Lewis in the show "Parker Lewis can't lose".Vladimir Horowitz said:He's a...celebrity.
"Fame" is just a different way to spell "instant poon".
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DJDamage said:Yep for those who don't know they are both washout kid actors from the 90's. The little guy was on "Married with Children" playing Bud Bundy, the taller guy was Parker Lewis in the show "Parker Lewis can't lose".
Vladimir Horowitz said:He's a...celebrity.
"Fame" is just a different way to spell "instant poon".