"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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HILARIOUS! Girl Field-Reports ME!

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I am ****ing serious. I met this chick on the street with her friend and pulled them both into a bar where I pulled them both. She was a ****ing cool chick, really sparky and funky as ****. Love it. It was just one of those things, but then...

On my blog (http://caintheexile.livejournal.com), I notice a comment from someone. It's her! Random as ****! And so I check out her blog and sure enough, I read the following... I've cross posted and I have edited nothing...


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You'll take the high road and I'll take the low road, and I'll be in Scotland before ye...
Scotland has brought me some of the best hot chocolate, pizza, and sex in my entire life.


Arrived to rain in Edinburgh and a Julia to greet me at the shuttle stop Wednesday morning. Went to that cafe where Harry Potter was written, then had cheese garlic bread pizza and chips with brown sauce and an Irn Bru at the kebab place down the street. Later went to Bannerman's, the first of many pubs of the week.

Thursday we commenced the Christmas shopping season on the Royal Mile and Princes Street. That night on the way to Ceilidh'ing, some British boys asked us for a light, and we ended up in a pub discussing wrestling names, porn, and how Julia kisses like a butch lesbian. Ended up in the flat of a sexy British man called Ciaran (one much akin to the persona Julia and I had been seeking after watching that British mystery show with the old lady and the snide British bastard). He had the perfect accent to make the word "naughty" make me practically melt. And of course, dirty talk is soooo much sexier with a British accent.
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Well gentlemen, is that a first? Have any of you got field reports of yourself you'd like to post?

*laughs my ass off*

Oh, man.

Ever Yours

Jekyll
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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With all due respect, it isn't that hilarious.

Probably would be more relevant if we were in your situation.
 

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Incog said:
With all due respect, it isn't that hilarious.

Probably would be more relevant if we were in your situation.
LOL I laughed at your reply, but not the original post. It's more of a coincidence than anything.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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drjekyll said:
" He had the perfect accent to make the word "naughty" make me practically melt. And of course, dirty talk is soooo much sexier with a British accent"
Dude, can I borrow your accent? :)
 
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