Viper
Banned
Alright, I'll ignore the rudeness people have given me and join then.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Unless you really know anything about my life, shut the fvck up now. I can just as easily say that the INTERNET is your life too, we would be doing the same thing, talking about something we don't know sh1t about.So what? This isn't even your topic you can't order anybody around, this is the INTERNET, you should know its your life.
I've been trying, but when I try, I learn that people on this board(or atleast the High School Forum) would rather argue and be *******s and talk about how I'm not going to do **** and discourage me from changing, rather than motivate me to change.start to learn how to change yourself...be a little open-minded for once in your life.
Originally posted by AB500
Everytime Viper posts a kitten dies.
Arg, AustinG I would post you the non .tk link to the high school boot camp but ThyBlindedBeast might get mad at me..
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This is the bullsh1t I'm talking about, grow the fvck up, Sosuave. I'm doing my best to ignore people, but if people don't shvt the fvck up and end it, I might have to report the fvcking mods, god damn, your like little children, you can't let things go.Originally posted by AB500
I'm in.. joined a while ago.
Everytime Viper posts a kitten dies.
Arg, AustinG I would post you the non .tk link to the high school boot camp but ThyBlindedBeast might get mad at me..
Get out.Originally posted by Viper
This is the bullsh1t I'm talking about, grow the fvck up, Sosuave. I'm doing my best to ignore people, but if people don't shvt the fvck up and end it, I might have to report the fvcking mods, god damn, your like little children, you can't let things go.
If a kitten dies everytime I post, a human must die everytime you post.
Shut the fvck up and stop spamming the topic.Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
Get out.
Anyways, boot camp is starting tomorrow is it not? Good luck guys.
bout ****ing time you got the spirit..now write DJ on the palm of your hand. and go live the life you have been wantingOriginally posted by Viper
And you know what? Yeah, I am going to join the HSDJBC, people think they know everything fvcking thing on this board, I'll prove them wrong by conquering the HSDJBC with flying results. I can't do it? Bullsh1t, I won't do anything? Bullsh1t, I know that my game sucks right now, but I'm going to work hard to improve it with this Boot Camp and when my game does improve, greatness will come.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
yes..what of it?Originally posted by E_ze05
wasnt this posted like a week ago????
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by E_ze05
wasnt this posted like a week ago????