Viper
Banned
Alright, I'll ignore the rudeness people have given me and join then.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Unless you really know anything about my life, shut the fvck up now. I can just as easily say that the INTERNET is your life too, we would be doing the same thing, talking about something we don't know sh1t about.So what? This isn't even your topic you can't order anybody around, this is the INTERNET, you should know its your life.
I've been trying, but when I try, I learn that people on this board(or atleast the High School Forum) would rather argue and be *******s and talk about how I'm not going to do **** and discourage me from changing, rather than motivate me to change.start to learn how to change yourself...be a little open-minded for once in your life.
Originally posted by AB500
Everytime Viper posts a kitten dies.
Arg, AustinG I would post you the non .tk link to the high school boot camp but ThyBlindedBeast might get mad at me..
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is the bullsh1t I'm talking about, grow the fvck up, Sosuave. I'm doing my best to ignore people, but if people don't shvt the fvck up and end it, I might have to report the fvcking mods, god damn, your like little children, you can't let things go.Originally posted by AB500
I'm in.. joined a while ago.
Everytime Viper posts a kitten dies.
Arg, AustinG I would post you the non .tk link to the high school boot camp but ThyBlindedBeast might get mad at me..
Get out.Originally posted by Viper
This is the bullsh1t I'm talking about, grow the fvck up, Sosuave. I'm doing my best to ignore people, but if people don't shvt the fvck up and end it, I might have to report the fvcking mods, god damn, your like little children, you can't let things go.
If a kitten dies everytime I post, a human must die everytime you post.
Shut the fvck up and stop spamming the topic.Originally posted by taiwanesedude227
Get out.
Anyways, boot camp is starting tomorrow is it not? Good luck guys.
bout ****ing time you got the spirit..now write DJ on the palm of your hand. and go live the life you have been wantingOriginally posted by Viper
And you know what? Yeah, I am going to join the HSDJBC, people think they know everything fvcking thing on this board, I'll prove them wrong by conquering the HSDJBC with flying results. I can't do it? Bullsh1t, I won't do anything? Bullsh1t, I know that my game sucks right now, but I'm going to work hard to improve it with this Boot Camp and when my game does improve, greatness will come.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
yes..what of it?Originally posted by E_ze05
wasnt this posted like a week ago????
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Originally posted by E_ze05
wasnt this posted like a week ago????