"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey players, i've never posted here before, so I'd like to thank you guys for turning my life with girls around...you guys are awesome :D

anway, on to my question...a lot of times when I'm out with friends i'll start talking to chicks and get their numbers, and they seem to really be diggin me. but when i call a few days later to set up a date or something, they seem really aloof and not nearly as interested. i pretty much go by WUWD's 3 principles of attraction...C + F, kino, and get away, and it works great for me...until i call :confused: so i'm just kinda confused about what causes these chicks to flake out so suddenly on me. i do use a LOT of C + F though, and i always joke around about going out with other girlfriends and stuff...so have you guys ever had any problems with using too much C + F? thanks yall
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There's a chance you're waiting too long to call. you'd have to make one hell of an impression for a girl to remember you/want to date you four or five days later.
 
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i definitely see what you're sayin dude, but i've always read on this site that you want to wait about a week to call to be a challenge and let her miss you...would you suggest only waiting maybe 2-3 days and then calling her up?
 
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Personally I tihnk the first call doesnt matter.

Call her after a day or two. Then after that ONCE a week for the first motnh for dates.

Read the DJ Bible. great info there.
 
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i definitely see what you're sayin dude, but i've always read on this site that you want to wait about a week to call to be a challenge and let her miss you...would you suggest only waiting maybe 2-3 days and then calling her up?
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Thats assuming you can make a good impression and really leave her wanting you.

Until you really iron out your skills, wait 2-3 days for the initial call, if anything. You could technicly call the next day if you wanted to; the initial call doesnt matter so much as the date you make does.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah, I think I am waiting too long to call, next time I'll only wait 1 or 2 days to call...thanks for all the input guys ;)
 
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