"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey players, i've never posted here before, so I'd like to thank you guys for turning my life with girls around...you guys are awesome :D

anway, on to my question...a lot of times when I'm out with friends i'll start talking to chicks and get their numbers, and they seem to really be diggin me. but when i call a few days later to set up a date or something, they seem really aloof and not nearly as interested. i pretty much go by WUWD's 3 principles of attraction...C + F, kino, and get away, and it works great for me...until i call :confused: so i'm just kinda confused about what causes these chicks to flake out so suddenly on me. i do use a LOT of C + F though, and i always joke around about going out with other girlfriends and stuff...so have you guys ever had any problems with using too much C + F? thanks yall
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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There's a chance you're waiting too long to call. you'd have to make one hell of an impression for a girl to remember you/want to date you four or five days later.
 
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i definitely see what you're sayin dude, but i've always read on this site that you want to wait about a week to call to be a challenge and let her miss you...would you suggest only waiting maybe 2-3 days and then calling her up?
 
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Personally I tihnk the first call doesnt matter.

Call her after a day or two. Then after that ONCE a week for the first motnh for dates.

Read the DJ Bible. great info there.
 
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Originally posted by xX tha one Xx
i definitely see what you're sayin dude, but i've always read on this site that you want to wait about a week to call to be a challenge and let her miss you...would you suggest only waiting maybe 2-3 days and then calling her up?
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Thats assuming you can make a good impression and really leave her wanting you.

Until you really iron out your skills, wait 2-3 days for the initial call, if anything. You could technicly call the next day if you wanted to; the initial call doesnt matter so much as the date you make does.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah, I think I am waiting too long to call, next time I'll only wait 1 or 2 days to call...thanks for all the input guys ;)
 
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