"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey players, i've never posted here before, so I'd like to thank you guys for turning my life with girls around...you guys are awesome :D

anway, on to my question...a lot of times when I'm out with friends i'll start talking to chicks and get their numbers, and they seem to really be diggin me. but when i call a few days later to set up a date or something, they seem really aloof and not nearly as interested. i pretty much go by WUWD's 3 principles of attraction...C + F, kino, and get away, and it works great for me...until i call :confused: so i'm just kinda confused about what causes these chicks to flake out so suddenly on me. i do use a LOT of C + F though, and i always joke around about going out with other girlfriends and stuff...so have you guys ever had any problems with using too much C + F? thanks yall
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There's a chance you're waiting too long to call. you'd have to make one hell of an impression for a girl to remember you/want to date you four or five days later.
 
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i definitely see what you're sayin dude, but i've always read on this site that you want to wait about a week to call to be a challenge and let her miss you...would you suggest only waiting maybe 2-3 days and then calling her up?
 
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Personally I tihnk the first call doesnt matter.

Call her after a day or two. Then after that ONCE a week for the first motnh for dates.

Read the DJ Bible. great info there.
 
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i definitely see what you're sayin dude, but i've always read on this site that you want to wait about a week to call to be a challenge and let her miss you...would you suggest only waiting maybe 2-3 days and then calling her up?
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Thats assuming you can make a good impression and really leave her wanting you.

Until you really iron out your skills, wait 2-3 days for the initial call, if anything. You could technicly call the next day if you wanted to; the initial call doesnt matter so much as the date you make does.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah, I think I am waiting too long to call, next time I'll only wait 1 or 2 days to call...thanks for all the input guys ;)
 
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