"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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High School Wingman Sticky

AlexLefty

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Name: Alex Lefkowitz

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Alex Lefkowitz - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1341644337

Residency: United States, Utah

Age: 18


Moderators, you should make a wingman sticky unique to high school. HSlers don't really belong in the original wingman forum because we are our own separate group here. Also, I'm sure I have many of your facebook accounts, but I don't know what your real name is. Thus, type in your stuff below.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LearningSlowly

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Hmm nah. Not trying to post my name and facebook on here. If someone's in Atlanta, let me know.

I added you on facebook
 

AlexLefty

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LearningSlowly said:
Hmm nah. Not trying to post my name and facebook on here. If someone's in Atlanta, let me know.

I added you on facebook
PM me who you are on facebook
Unless you're the request that I just got

BTW, your facebook is swaggin, you're with girls in nearly every profile pic.
 

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Alex, just PM me whenever this thread starts giving you trouble :p

Cape Town/Norway, that's my playground for the moment.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ahmed. Currently in Bahrain. PM me if you're around.
 

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BPH said:
I think it's already been established that nobody lives in Delaware. But I'll post up here in case anybody wants to move here to evade sales tax or somethin.

Wilmington, DE
They have really nice rules for corporations, so you might find me up there in a couple of years. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlexLefty

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amohield said:
They have really nice rules for corporations, so you might find me up there in a couple of years. :D
Franchises are the way to go.
 
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