"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

High School Wingman Sticky

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
Name: Alex Lefkowitz

Facebook:
Alex Lefkowitz - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1341644337

Residency: United States, Utah

Age: 18


Moderators, you should make a wingman sticky unique to high school. HSlers don't really belong in the original wingman forum because we are our own separate group here. Also, I'm sure I have many of your facebook accounts, but I don't know what your real name is. Thus, type in your stuff below.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

LearningSlowly

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 8, 2011
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
12
Location
Atlanta
Hmm nah. Not trying to post my name and facebook on here. If someone's in Atlanta, let me know.

I added you on facebook
 

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
LearningSlowly said:
Hmm nah. Not trying to post my name and facebook on here. If someone's in Atlanta, let me know.

I added you on facebook
PM me who you are on facebook
Unless you're the request that I just got

BTW, your facebook is swaggin, you're with girls in nearly every profile pic.
 

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Alex, just PM me whenever this thread starts giving you trouble :p

Cape Town/Norway, that's my playground for the moment.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Amo

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2010
Messages
311
Reaction score
7
Ahmed. Currently in Bahrain. PM me if you're around.
 

Amo

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2010
Messages
311
Reaction score
7
BPH said:
I think it's already been established that nobody lives in Delaware. But I'll post up here in case anybody wants to move here to evade sales tax or somethin.

Wilmington, DE
They have really nice rules for corporations, so you might find me up there in a couple of years. :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
amohield said:
They have really nice rules for corporations, so you might find me up there in a couple of years. :D
Franchises are the way to go.
 
Top