Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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High School Wingman Sticky

AlexLefty

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Name: Alex Lefkowitz

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Alex Lefkowitz - http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1341644337

Residency: United States, Utah

Age: 18


Moderators, you should make a wingman sticky unique to high school. HSlers don't really belong in the original wingman forum because we are our own separate group here. Also, I'm sure I have many of your facebook accounts, but I don't know what your real name is. Thus, type in your stuff below.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LearningSlowly

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Hmm nah. Not trying to post my name and facebook on here. If someone's in Atlanta, let me know.

I added you on facebook
 

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LearningSlowly said:
Hmm nah. Not trying to post my name and facebook on here. If someone's in Atlanta, let me know.

I added you on facebook
PM me who you are on facebook
Unless you're the request that I just got

BTW, your facebook is swaggin, you're with girls in nearly every profile pic.
 

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Alex, just PM me whenever this thread starts giving you trouble :p

Cape Town/Norway, that's my playground for the moment.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ahmed. Currently in Bahrain. PM me if you're around.
 

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BPH said:
I think it's already been established that nobody lives in Delaware. But I'll post up here in case anybody wants to move here to evade sales tax or somethin.

Wilmington, DE
They have really nice rules for corporations, so you might find me up there in a couple of years. :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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amohield said:
They have really nice rules for corporations, so you might find me up there in a couple of years. :D
Franchises are the way to go.
 
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