"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp!

AlexLefty

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Safe to say this bootcamp has burned out?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheVirtualMind

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AlexLefty said:
Safe to say this bootcamp has burned out?
No, just trying to figure out where in the hell EastCoast is...
 

Wisdom

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I hope it's ok if I start now at week 1, just signed up and this site looks like some good sh¡t. My main problem is that I always doubt myself and never make a move, any advice?
 

sijas

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Small town with little oppportnities?

hi I live in a pretty small town with about 8,000 people and there are about 300 kids in my entire middle school. There aren't many things to do here, just a bowling alley and skating rink. I've been to those places several times and there weren't any girls that is worth going for. The closest town near me actually with people living in it is an hour away. What can or should I do to get more opportunities? If you can give me some advice I would appreciate it if you could reply or pm me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NorwegianDJ

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The Libertine said:
I think this one's dead.
We'll see. Personally, I need to focus a lot on academics and the SAT, thus I wouldn't set off any extra time for the bootcamp. Therefore it fits me nicely to start this over again in June.
 

LearningSlowly

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NorwegianDJ said:
We'll see. Personally, I need to focus a lot on academics and the SAT, thus I wouldn't set off any extra time for the bootcamp. Therefore it fits me nicely to start this over again in June.
Yeah, thats what BPH had been suggesting. I agree. I'll have a lot more time to game after graduation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NorwegianDJ

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DanZy said:
In June/July I start prelims, NDJ will know what I'm talking about. I've got to work like a mother****er
Yeah, I know. This won't fit you, Nino, and Jaedon.
 

Dreamin'_Dylan

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I wish I could have tried this, but I just found this site yesterday, and my last day if school for the year is tomorrow. Maybe I'll read through and start completing the goals in august when school starts again.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Dreamin'_Dylan said:
I wish I could have tried this, but I just found this site yesterday, and my last day if school for the year is tomorrow. Maybe I'll read through and start completing the goals in august when school starts again.
We'll create something similar to this over the summer holidays.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NorwegianDJ

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apocolipto said:
When will bootcamp officialy start? No set date?
No set date. I got exams currently. I'll message some people and make a plan. Expect it within 1-2 weeks :)
 

apocolipto

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The time I end exams!Perfect timing :)

Can't wait.I'm off to JHB,so I'm going to make the best of it.
 
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