"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp!

AlexLefty

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Safe to say this bootcamp has burned out?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheVirtualMind

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AlexLefty said:
Safe to say this bootcamp has burned out?
No, just trying to figure out where in the hell EastCoast is...
 

Wisdom

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I hope it's ok if I start now at week 1, just signed up and this site looks like some good sh¡t. My main problem is that I always doubt myself and never make a move, any advice?
 

sijas

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Small town with little oppportnities?

hi I live in a pretty small town with about 8,000 people and there are about 300 kids in my entire middle school. There aren't many things to do here, just a bowling alley and skating rink. I've been to those places several times and there weren't any girls that is worth going for. The closest town near me actually with people living in it is an hour away. What can or should I do to get more opportunities? If you can give me some advice I would appreciate it if you could reply or pm me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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NorwegianDJ

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The Libertine said:
I think this one's dead.
We'll see. Personally, I need to focus a lot on academics and the SAT, thus I wouldn't set off any extra time for the bootcamp. Therefore it fits me nicely to start this over again in June.
 

LearningSlowly

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NorwegianDJ said:
We'll see. Personally, I need to focus a lot on academics and the SAT, thus I wouldn't set off any extra time for the bootcamp. Therefore it fits me nicely to start this over again in June.
Yeah, thats what BPH had been suggesting. I agree. I'll have a lot more time to game after graduation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NorwegianDJ

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DanZy said:
In June/July I start prelims, NDJ will know what I'm talking about. I've got to work like a mother****er
Yeah, I know. This won't fit you, Nino, and Jaedon.
 

Dreamin'_Dylan

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I wish I could have tried this, but I just found this site yesterday, and my last day if school for the year is tomorrow. Maybe I'll read through and start completing the goals in august when school starts again.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Dreamin'_Dylan said:
I wish I could have tried this, but I just found this site yesterday, and my last day if school for the year is tomorrow. Maybe I'll read through and start completing the goals in august when school starts again.
We'll create something similar to this over the summer holidays.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NorwegianDJ

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apocolipto said:
When will bootcamp officialy start? No set date?
No set date. I got exams currently. I'll message some people and make a plan. Expect it within 1-2 weeks :)
 

apocolipto

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The time I end exams!Perfect timing :)

Can't wait.I'm off to JHB,so I'm going to make the best of it.
 
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