"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp!

AlexLefty

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Safe to say this bootcamp has burned out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheVirtualMind

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AlexLefty said:
Safe to say this bootcamp has burned out?
No, just trying to figure out where in the hell EastCoast is...
 

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I hope it's ok if I start now at week 1, just signed up and this site looks like some good sh¡t. My main problem is that I always doubt myself and never make a move, any advice?
 

sijas

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Small town with little oppportnities?

hi I live in a pretty small town with about 8,000 people and there are about 300 kids in my entire middle school. There aren't many things to do here, just a bowling alley and skating rink. I've been to those places several times and there weren't any girls that is worth going for. The closest town near me actually with people living in it is an hour away. What can or should I do to get more opportunities? If you can give me some advice I would appreciate it if you could reply or pm me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NorwegianDJ

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The Libertine said:
I think this one's dead.
We'll see. Personally, I need to focus a lot on academics and the SAT, thus I wouldn't set off any extra time for the bootcamp. Therefore it fits me nicely to start this over again in June.
 

LearningSlowly

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NorwegianDJ said:
We'll see. Personally, I need to focus a lot on academics and the SAT, thus I wouldn't set off any extra time for the bootcamp. Therefore it fits me nicely to start this over again in June.
Yeah, thats what BPH had been suggesting. I agree. I'll have a lot more time to game after graduation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NorwegianDJ

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DanZy said:
In June/July I start prelims, NDJ will know what I'm talking about. I've got to work like a mother****er
Yeah, I know. This won't fit you, Nino, and Jaedon.
 

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I wish I could have tried this, but I just found this site yesterday, and my last day if school for the year is tomorrow. Maybe I'll read through and start completing the goals in august when school starts again.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Dreamin'_Dylan said:
I wish I could have tried this, but I just found this site yesterday, and my last day if school for the year is tomorrow. Maybe I'll read through and start completing the goals in august when school starts again.
We'll create something similar to this over the summer holidays.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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NorwegianDJ

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apocolipto said:
When will bootcamp officialy start? No set date?
No set date. I got exams currently. I'll message some people and make a plan. Expect it within 1-2 weeks :)
 

apocolipto

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The time I end exams!Perfect timing :)

Can't wait.I'm off to JHB,so I'm going to make the best of it.
 
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