"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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No, just trying to figure out where in the hell EastCoast is...AlexLefty said:
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I'll fix it.TheVirtualMind said:
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hi I live in a pretty small town with about 8,000 people and there are about 300 kids in my entire middle school. There aren't many things to do here, just a bowling alley and skating rink. I've been to those places several times and there weren't any girls that is worth going for. The closest town near me actually with people living in it is an hour away. What can or should I do to get more opportunities? If you can give me some advice I would appreciate it if you could reply or pm me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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We will continue shortly.mind said:
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We'll see. Personally, I need to focus a lot on academics and the SAT, thus I wouldn't set off any extra time for the bootcamp. Therefore it fits me nicely to start this over again in June.The Libertine said:
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Yeah, thats what BPH had been suggesting. I agree. I'll have a lot more time to game after graduation.NorwegianDJ said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Yeah, I know. This won't fit you, Nino, and Jaedon.DanZy said:
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We'll create something similar to this over the summer holidays.Dreamin'_Dylan said:
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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No set date. I got exams currently. I'll message some people and make a plan. Expect it within 1-2 weeksapocolipto said:
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Can't wait.I'm off to JHB,so I'm going to make the best of it.