"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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High School Don Juan Bootcamp Bonus Challenge: Hold Your Fire!

Pozitron

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Today is my 4th day. It wasn't easy but I'm sticking to the plan.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mindgamez

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Dude, seems hard for you haha! You just gotta stop man. Once you think about MBing, think about something disgusting and you'll stop. Works for me lol.
 

NorwegianDJ

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I figured why not yesterday. I conclude that mbing does indeed have a depressing effect.

Day 1 :)
 

Pozitron

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My friends I don't understand how those doodes on yourbrainonporn kept it together for 3 -5 10( holy ****) months. I tell you.. I don't know if we can do that.. like never ever do it but with a girl except the situation when you are in a relationship like always in your life and you know what I mean...
This is my take on this... I remember Sammo once went like this in one post:
Stop mb for 1 month. Then Doing it once every 5 days or a week or someting.... anyway.. keeping it into control.
Wouldn't you agree?
 

NobodyCares1

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**** 3 weeks and man it's so hard... I avoid pictures of naked women as much as I can... man if I saw something like that now I don't think I could stop myself... :whistle:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Amo

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I lost a couple days back after being fine for a couple of weeks. My record has been half a year or something.

The key is really to keep yourself active. Sleep early, don't watch porn, always have something to do!
 

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Porn and mb = Depressing effect, atleast for me.

No porn and mb one time a week = great.

I have been porn free for over 1 month now.

Sounds like I've been addicted lol
 

Mindgamez

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Uggh I did it 2 days ago!
I wasn't feeling so well, I was stressed and I had negative thoughts. Then I was thinking about girls, and I told myself that touching myself a little wouldn't hurt. I didn't wanted to ejaculate at first, but it happened haha. Realized that when I'm feeling good, I don't feel the need to MB. I MB when I feel bored sometimes... this is not good.

Day 2 :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mindgamez

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Maaann I fail at this...
Failed yesterday. I was kind of stressed and MB really relaxed me. I didn't do it in a long time. It's not a good thing to MB when I feel stressed... I should do meditation instead or something.

Anyway, Let's try again.

Day 1
 

Mindgamez

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Yeah me too!
Once you stop for long, it's cool and you don't do it for a week or so. But when you do it once, you start doing it every day again... Anyway, this is what happened to me. I'm at day 2 now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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