"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pozitron

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Today is my 4th day. It wasn't easy but I'm sticking to the plan.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mindgamez

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Dude, seems hard for you haha! You just gotta stop man. Once you think about MBing, think about something disgusting and you'll stop. Works for me lol.
 

NorwegianDJ

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I figured why not yesterday. I conclude that mbing does indeed have a depressing effect.

Day 1 :)
 

Pozitron

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My friends I don't understand how those doodes on yourbrainonporn kept it together for 3 -5 10( holy ****) months. I tell you.. I don't know if we can do that.. like never ever do it but with a girl except the situation when you are in a relationship like always in your life and you know what I mean...
This is my take on this... I remember Sammo once went like this in one post:
Stop mb for 1 month. Then Doing it once every 5 days or a week or someting.... anyway.. keeping it into control.
Wouldn't you agree?
 

NobodyCares1

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**** 3 weeks and man it's so hard... I avoid pictures of naked women as much as I can... man if I saw something like that now I don't think I could stop myself... :whistle:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Amo

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I lost a couple days back after being fine for a couple of weeks. My record has been half a year or something.

The key is really to keep yourself active. Sleep early, don't watch porn, always have something to do!
 

Luke

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Porn and mb = Depressing effect, atleast for me.

No porn and mb one time a week = great.

I have been porn free for over 1 month now.

Sounds like I've been addicted lol
 

Mindgamez

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Uggh I did it 2 days ago!
I wasn't feeling so well, I was stressed and I had negative thoughts. Then I was thinking about girls, and I told myself that touching myself a little wouldn't hurt. I didn't wanted to ejaculate at first, but it happened haha. Realized that when I'm feeling good, I don't feel the need to MB. I MB when I feel bored sometimes... this is not good.

Day 2 :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mindgamez

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Maaann I fail at this...
Failed yesterday. I was kind of stressed and MB really relaxed me. I didn't do it in a long time. It's not a good thing to MB when I feel stressed... I should do meditation instead or something.

Anyway, Let's try again.

Day 1
 

Mindgamez

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Yeah me too!
Once you stop for long, it's cool and you don't do it for a week or so. But when you do it once, you start doing it every day again... Anyway, this is what happened to me. I'm at day 2 now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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