"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pozitron

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Today is my 4th day. It wasn't easy but I'm sticking to the plan.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mindgamez

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Dude, seems hard for you haha! You just gotta stop man. Once you think about MBing, think about something disgusting and you'll stop. Works for me lol.
 

NorwegianDJ

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I figured why not yesterday. I conclude that mbing does indeed have a depressing effect.

Day 1 :)
 

Pozitron

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My friends I don't understand how those doodes on yourbrainonporn kept it together for 3 -5 10( holy ****) months. I tell you.. I don't know if we can do that.. like never ever do it but with a girl except the situation when you are in a relationship like always in your life and you know what I mean...
This is my take on this... I remember Sammo once went like this in one post:
Stop mb for 1 month. Then Doing it once every 5 days or a week or someting.... anyway.. keeping it into control.
Wouldn't you agree?
 

NobodyCares1

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**** 3 weeks and man it's so hard... I avoid pictures of naked women as much as I can... man if I saw something like that now I don't think I could stop myself... :whistle:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Amo

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I lost a couple days back after being fine for a couple of weeks. My record has been half a year or something.

The key is really to keep yourself active. Sleep early, don't watch porn, always have something to do!
 

Luke

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Porn and mb = Depressing effect, atleast for me.

No porn and mb one time a week = great.

I have been porn free for over 1 month now.

Sounds like I've been addicted lol
 

Mindgamez

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Uggh I did it 2 days ago!
I wasn't feeling so well, I was stressed and I had negative thoughts. Then I was thinking about girls, and I told myself that touching myself a little wouldn't hurt. I didn't wanted to ejaculate at first, but it happened haha. Realized that when I'm feeling good, I don't feel the need to MB. I MB when I feel bored sometimes... this is not good.

Day 2 :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mindgamez

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Maaann I fail at this...
Failed yesterday. I was kind of stressed and MB really relaxed me. I didn't do it in a long time. It's not a good thing to MB when I feel stressed... I should do meditation instead or something.

Anyway, Let's try again.

Day 1
 

Mindgamez

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Yeah me too!
Once you stop for long, it's cool and you don't do it for a week or so. But when you do it once, you start doing it every day again... Anyway, this is what happened to me. I'm at day 2 now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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