"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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High School DJ Contact List

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DjMystery

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Damn I've been for such a long time and still haven't put my SN herre. Well herre it is.

AIM: DjMystery28
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"DJings My Game"
"Mysterys The Name"
 

Lorenzo

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HO - HO, whats cracking fela's?

I dono, I'm board out of my mind, so I'm putting this in the HSDJB under the glossary, for referance.

ALSO, my info's in my sig, incase u'all need a chat!

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The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible

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“Carpe Diem."
"The little things... there's nothing bigger, is there?"
"When you are sure you know something through and through... be sure, also, that by changing your perspective, you'll know nothing at all"
 

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supp...my screen name is 'balla dip' feel free to ask me questions at any time!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RockGuitarist

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Lorenzo

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BUMP!!!

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"On any given Sunday you're either gonna win or you're gonna lose. The point is - can you win or lose like a man?" - Al Pachino
"... Any man's finest hour - his greatest fufillment to all he holds dear - is that moment when he has worked his heart out in a good cause and lies exhausted on the field of battle - victorious." - Vince Lombardi
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ah yes, and I was also thinking, would anybody like to undertake the task of compiling this list in some easier to access form? I would happily undertake it, but I honestly can't think of an effective way to do it.
 

whatsupwiddat

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Originally posted by CaptainSlinky
Ah yes, and I was also thinking, would anybody like to undertake the task of compiling this list in some easier to access form? I would happily undertake it, but I honestly can't think of an effective way to do it.
I can do it.. however, since you can only edit within one week of your posting time for some unknown lame reason, it can't be updated.

But I can copy and paste in order of importance for the first 10, and have the rest be in alphabetical order.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CaptainSlinky

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Originally posted by whatsupwiddat
I can do it.. however, since you can only edit within one week of your posting time for some unknown lame reason, it can't be updated.

But I can copy and paste in order of importance for the first 10, and have the rest be in alphabetical order.
I was thinking in more of a downloadable form, or placed on a wed site, not as a compliation post.
 

Mack Of All Trades

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For those who would like to chat up a mack...


Aim: Stillbettathanya
email: [email protected]


It might be tough to talk to me, because I dont come on that much.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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