"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I learned that a great leader is a man who has the ability to get other people to do what they don't want to do and like it."
MSN: [email protected]
ICQ: 91550146
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"I learned that a great leader is a man who has the ability to get other people to do what they don't want to do and like it."
MSN: [email protected]
ICQ: 91550146
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Rollins with Jello
Don Juan
E-mail- [email protected]
icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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Rollins with Jello
Don Juan
E-mail- [email protected]
icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Don Juan
AIM: StEveHBeN
im open for discussion
im open for discussion
Charmless Man
Banned
AIM: Zelemont
E-mail: [email protected]
E-mail: [email protected]
machoguy123
Banned
hey everyone my aim name is buguo719, and my email is [email protected]... give me a holla if you wish. im still working on getting rid of bad afc character traits, but i might be able to help.
Specter
Senior Don Juan
This has gotten to long!
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I am who i am becuase i can be no one else.
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I am who i am becuase i can be no one else.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Siris AxMan
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i'm new to the post, but not the site.
here's my info
email= [email protected]
aim= Siris Axman
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The Ax Man of SIRIS
Aim=Siris Axman
here's my info
email= [email protected]
aim= Siris Axman
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The Ax Man of SIRIS
Aim=Siris Axman
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lost
Master Don Juan
bump
Steve
Senior Don Juan
AIM: steveman14
or
AIM: texasp1aya
1 = #1, NOT the letter 'L'
or
AIM: texasp1aya
1 = #1, NOT the letter 'L'
akaEnder
Don Juan
aim: Quad4IV
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.