"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"I learned that a great leader is a man who has the ability to get other people to do what they don't want to do and like it."
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ICQ: 91550146
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"I learned that a great leader is a man who has the ability to get other people to do what they don't want to do and like it."
MSN: [email protected]
ICQ: 91550146
ToileT()_)PapeR
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Rollins with Jello
Don Juan
E-mail- [email protected]
icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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Rollins with Jello
Don Juan
E-mail- [email protected]
icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Don Juan
AIM: StEveHBeN
im open for discussion
im open for discussion
Charmless Man
Banned
AIM: Zelemont
E-mail: [email protected]
E-mail: [email protected]
machoguy123
Banned
hey everyone my aim name is buguo719, and my email is [email protected]... give me a holla if you wish. im still working on getting rid of bad afc character traits, but i might be able to help.
Specter
Senior Don Juan
This has gotten to long!
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I am who i am becuase i can be no one else.
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I am who i am becuase i can be no one else.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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i'm new to the post, but not the site.
here's my info
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The Ax Man of SIRIS
Aim=Siris Axman
here's my info
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The Ax Man of SIRIS
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Steve
Senior Don Juan
AIM: steveman14
or
AIM: texasp1aya
1 = #1, NOT the letter 'L'
or
AIM: texasp1aya
1 = #1, NOT the letter 'L'
akaEnder
Don Juan
aim: Quad4IV
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.