"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I learned that a great leader is a man who has the ability to get other people to do what they don't want to do and like it."
MSN: [email protected]
ICQ: 91550146
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"I learned that a great leader is a man who has the ability to get other people to do what they don't want to do and like it."
MSN: [email protected]
ICQ: 91550146
ToileT()_)PapeR
Senior Don Juan
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Rollins with Jello
Don Juan
E-mail- [email protected]
icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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Rollins with Jello
Don Juan
E-mail- [email protected]
icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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icq- 137226840
yahoo- the_almighty_dudeus
Gimme a yell,im on a lot.Dont post much cause im in something of a turning phase.I know too much to need anymore help,yet i dont kno enough to give my own help.Anywho...Does anyone know how i can change my name and password?Lemme know!!
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hey
Don Juan
AIM: StEveHBeN
im open for discussion
im open for discussion
Charmless Man
Banned
AIM: Zelemont
E-mail: [email protected]
E-mail: [email protected]
machoguy123
Banned
hey everyone my aim name is buguo719, and my email is [email protected]... give me a holla if you wish. im still working on getting rid of bad afc character traits, but i might be able to help.
Specter
Senior Don Juan
This has gotten to long!
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I am who i am becuase i can be no one else.
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I am who i am becuase i can be no one else.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Siris AxMan
New Member
i'm new to the post, but not the site.
here's my info
email= [email protected]
aim= Siris Axman
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The Ax Man of SIRIS
Aim=Siris Axman
here's my info
email= [email protected]
aim= Siris Axman
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The Ax Man of SIRIS
Aim=Siris Axman
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lost
Master Don Juan
bump
Steve
Senior Don Juan
AIM: steveman14
or
AIM: texasp1aya
1 = #1, NOT the letter 'L'
or
AIM: texasp1aya
1 = #1, NOT the letter 'L'
akaEnder
Don Juan
aim: Quad4IV
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.