"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Serg897

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hah, this was on the second page, it needs a good bump.

I also just got ICQ, using trillian, it rocks, talk to me people! (the # is in my sig)

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"If at first you dont succeed, try, try, again"

"No not try, DO. Or do not. There is no try." -Yoda
 

Joe Schmoe

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Abbott

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All,

Ahh! I just checked back into this and
noticed my sig wasn't in there! So let's try this again. I'll type it again in the
message if my sig doesn't show, so here goes:

AIM: IamAbbott
ICQ: 160657658(new #)
Yahoo IM: IamAbbott
MSN IM: [email protected]
E-mail: [email protected]

I'm a loser who's always on so you can talk
to me if you wanna. Just about every 11PM-12:30AM CST(not weekends necessarily, those
are different). Anyway terribly sorry about
the stupid looking message that said that
info was in my sig when there was no sig.

Abbott

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"To live a lie is to not really live." - Myself

E-mail: [email protected]

AIM: IamAbbott; Abbott4
Yahoo IM: IamAbbott
MSN IM: [email protected]
ICQ: 55443052(rarely used, amazing I can remember the number.)
 

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Live today for today, not just to get to tomorrow.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've got MSN Messenger and I'm on it quite a bit. My address is [email protected]. I'm on AOL Messenger every now and then and my name on there is BigARon41. I'd love to talk to anyone. I'm not even close to an expert but I am definitely overcoming my AFC-like ways.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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