"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hah, this was on the second page, it needs a good bump.

I also just got ICQ, using trillian, it rocks, talk to me people! (the # is in my sig)

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"If at first you dont succeed, try, try, again"

"No not try, DO. Or do not. There is no try." -Yoda
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Abbott

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All,

Ahh! I just checked back into this and
noticed my sig wasn't in there! So let's try this again. I'll type it again in the
message if my sig doesn't show, so here goes:

AIM: IamAbbott
ICQ: 160657658(new #)
Yahoo IM: IamAbbott
MSN IM: [email protected]
E-mail: [email protected]

I'm a loser who's always on so you can talk
to me if you wanna. Just about every 11PM-12:30AM CST(not weekends necessarily, those
are different). Anyway terribly sorry about
the stupid looking message that said that
info was in my sig when there was no sig.

Abbott

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"To live a lie is to not really live." - Myself

E-mail: [email protected]

AIM: IamAbbott; Abbott4
Yahoo IM: IamAbbott
MSN IM: [email protected]
ICQ: 55443052(rarely used, amazing I can remember the number.)
 

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Live today for today, not just to get to tomorrow.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've got MSN Messenger and I'm on it quite a bit. My address is [email protected]. I'm on AOL Messenger every now and then and my name on there is BigARon41. I'd love to talk to anyone. I'm not even close to an expert but I am definitely overcoming my AFC-like ways.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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