"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Serg897

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hah, this was on the second page, it needs a good bump.

I also just got ICQ, using trillian, it rocks, talk to me people! (the # is in my sig)

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"If at first you dont succeed, try, try, again"

"No not try, DO. Or do not. There is no try." -Yoda
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All,

Ahh! I just checked back into this and
noticed my sig wasn't in there! So let's try this again. I'll type it again in the
message if my sig doesn't show, so here goes:

AIM: IamAbbott
ICQ: 160657658(new #)
Yahoo IM: IamAbbott
MSN IM: [email protected]
E-mail: [email protected]

I'm a loser who's always on so you can talk
to me if you wanna. Just about every 11PM-12:30AM CST(not weekends necessarily, those
are different). Anyway terribly sorry about
the stupid looking message that said that
info was in my sig when there was no sig.

Abbott

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"To live a lie is to not really live." - Myself

E-mail: [email protected]

AIM: IamAbbott; Abbott4
Yahoo IM: IamAbbott
MSN IM: [email protected]
ICQ: 55443052(rarely used, amazing I can remember the number.)
 
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Live today for today, not just to get to tomorrow.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've got MSN Messenger and I'm on it quite a bit. My address is [email protected]. I'm on AOL Messenger every now and then and my name on there is BigARon41. I'd love to talk to anyone. I'm not even close to an expert but I am definitely overcoming my AFC-like ways.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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