"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000
email:[email protected]
I'll give advice to anyone, even if i dunno you!
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AIM: HangTen3000
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email:[email protected]
I'll give advice to anyone, even if i dunno you!
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Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000
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Havent really posted in a while, whats up?
AIM: daplaya1
Email: [email protected]
WUWD: You'll give advice to anyone, but does that mean you'll be helping them out any? haha jk
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-Andrew
AIM: DaPlaya1
DJ: ABM
E-Mail: [email protected]
Don Juaning it since 10-14-2001
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AIM: daplaya1
Email: [email protected]
WUWD: You'll give advice to anyone, but does that mean you'll be helping them out any? haha jk
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-Andrew
AIM: DaPlaya1
DJ: ABM
E-Mail: [email protected]
Don Juaning it since 10-14-2001
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AIM: adimex01 and levels ffr
ICQ: 65287451
E-Mail: [email protected] or [email protected] (both are the same really)
IM me if u wanna talk
ICQ: 65287451
E-Mail: [email protected] or [email protected] (both are the same really)
IM me if u wanna talk
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
EclipseGSX
Don Juan
Scott
AOL/AIM: SPorts0705
AOL/AIM: SPorts0705
Goldenboy
Don Juan
hey people, its in my sig. but w/e its cool...
AIM: AMOS145WIN
always look'n to give advice as well as get advice, so holla, lol.....
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AIM: AMOS145WIN
AND THAN I SAW HER STAND'N THERE/WITH GREEN EYES AND LONG BLOND HAIR/SHE WAS'NT WEAR'N UNDEAR WEAR/ATLEAST I PRAY THAT SHE MIGHT BE THE ONE/MAYBE WE'D HAVE SOME FUN/MAYBE WE'D WATCH THE SUN RISE/ BUT THAT NIGHT I LEARNED SOME GIRLS TRY TO HARD/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/SOME GIRLS TRY TOO HARD---BliNk182
"IF I WAS A CHICK ,ID FU*K ME,WOULD'NT YOU??? OH YEA!!!"---ME
"KEEP YOUR PIMP HAND STRONG"---ME
AIM: AMOS145WIN
always look'n to give advice as well as get advice, so holla, lol.....
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AIM: AMOS145WIN
AND THAN I SAW HER STAND'N THERE/WITH GREEN EYES AND LONG BLOND HAIR/SHE WAS'NT WEAR'N UNDEAR WEAR/ATLEAST I PRAY THAT SHE MIGHT BE THE ONE/MAYBE WE'D HAVE SOME FUN/MAYBE WE'D WATCH THE SUN RISE/ BUT THAT NIGHT I LEARNED SOME GIRLS TRY TO HARD/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/SOME GIRLS TRY TOO HARD---BliNk182
"IF I WAS A CHICK ,ID FU*K ME,WOULD'NT YOU??? OH YEA!!!"---ME
"KEEP YOUR PIMP HAND STRONG"---ME
Hollywood
New Member
Whats up dude. I kind of enw to the discussion room
but you can e-mail at [email protected] or IM me at Live3003. Later. THat is also for any hgihgschool DJ's out tehre, we need to keep us alvie and be tehre for each toher.
but you can e-mail at [email protected] or IM me at Live3003. Later. THat is also for any hgihgschool DJ's out tehre, we need to keep us alvie and be tehre for each toher.
CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
This is great, keep em' coming guys!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don Blitori
Don Juan
hey, im a new djer here..but i just thought i would start off with posting some contact shtuff..
icq - 94805957
msn - [email protected]
icq - 94805957
msn - [email protected]
BadBoy10605
Don Juan
Hello Everyone. I'm kinda new to the discussion board, but I'm not a stranger to sosuave.com. Just like most of you, I'm full of great information, and willing to help anyone that asks for it.
AoL/CS: BadBoy10605 (@cs.com)
ICQ: 154631476
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AoL/CS: BadBoy10605 (@cs.com)
ICQ: 154631476
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Man Of Adventure
Master Don Juan
Hey guys, thought Id like to add some extra insight.
MSN: [email protected].
Later
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Stop pursuing, and make them be on the chase.-MOA
MSN: [email protected].
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Stop pursuing, and make them be on the chase.-MOA
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Specter
Senior Don Juan
Large Mike
Don Juan
mail: [email protected]
icq: 46292670
I am willing to help anyone who needs it.
plus Im very interesting to talk to.
icq: 46292670
I am willing to help anyone who needs it.
plus Im very interesting to talk to.
Ronin
Senior Don Juan
MSN: Please let me know that ur from here...so i know who u are
..
Can wait to give some help and recive some in turn. I just added most of the MSn adresses that are on here so u now who i am.
Hit me up on MSN:
[email protected]
Ronin
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Can wait to give some help and recive some in turn. I just added most of the MSn adresses that are on here so u now who i am.
Hit me up on MSN:
[email protected]
Ronin
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.