"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
High School DJ Contact List
- Thread starter CaptainSlinky
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000
email:[email protected]
I'll give advice to anyone, even if i dunno you!
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AIM: HangTen3000
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email:[email protected]
I'll give advice to anyone, even if i dunno you!
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Whatsupwiddat - Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000
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Havent really posted in a while, whats up?
AIM: daplaya1
Email: [email protected]
WUWD: You'll give advice to anyone, but does that mean you'll be helping them out any? haha jk
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-Andrew
AIM: DaPlaya1
DJ: ABM
E-Mail: [email protected]
Don Juaning it since 10-14-2001
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AIM: daplaya1
Email: [email protected]
WUWD: You'll give advice to anyone, but does that mean you'll be helping them out any? haha jk
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-Andrew
AIM: DaPlaya1
DJ: ABM
E-Mail: [email protected]
Don Juaning it since 10-14-2001
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AIM: adimex01 and levels ffr
ICQ: 65287451
E-Mail: [email protected] or [email protected] (both are the same really)
IM me if u wanna talk
ICQ: 65287451
E-Mail: [email protected] or [email protected] (both are the same really)
IM me if u wanna talk
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
EclipseGSX
Don Juan
Scott
AOL/AIM: SPorts0705
AOL/AIM: SPorts0705
Goldenboy
Don Juan
hey people, its in my sig. but w/e its cool...
AIM: AMOS145WIN
always look'n to give advice as well as get advice, so holla, lol.....
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AIM: AMOS145WIN
AND THAN I SAW HER STAND'N THERE/WITH GREEN EYES AND LONG BLOND HAIR/SHE WAS'NT WEAR'N UNDEAR WEAR/ATLEAST I PRAY THAT SHE MIGHT BE THE ONE/MAYBE WE'D HAVE SOME FUN/MAYBE WE'D WATCH THE SUN RISE/ BUT THAT NIGHT I LEARNED SOME GIRLS TRY TO HARD/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/SOME GIRLS TRY TOO HARD---BliNk182
"IF I WAS A CHICK ,ID FU*K ME,WOULD'NT YOU??? OH YEA!!!"---ME
"KEEP YOUR PIMP HAND STRONG"---ME
AIM: AMOS145WIN
always look'n to give advice as well as get advice, so holla, lol.....
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AIM: AMOS145WIN
AND THAN I SAW HER STAND'N THERE/WITH GREEN EYES AND LONG BLOND HAIR/SHE WAS'NT WEAR'N UNDEAR WEAR/ATLEAST I PRAY THAT SHE MIGHT BE THE ONE/MAYBE WE'D HAVE SOME FUN/MAYBE WE'D WATCH THE SUN RISE/ BUT THAT NIGHT I LEARNED SOME GIRLS TRY TO HARD/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/SOME GIRLS TRY TOO HARD---BliNk182
"IF I WAS A CHICK ,ID FU*K ME,WOULD'NT YOU??? OH YEA!!!"---ME
"KEEP YOUR PIMP HAND STRONG"---ME
Hollywood
New Member
Whats up dude. I kind of enw to the discussion room
but you can e-mail at [email protected] or IM me at Live3003. Later. THat is also for any hgihgschool DJ's out tehre, we need to keep us alvie and be tehre for each toher.
but you can e-mail at [email protected] or IM me at Live3003. Later. THat is also for any hgihgschool DJ's out tehre, we need to keep us alvie and be tehre for each toher.
CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
This is great, keep em' coming guys!
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Don Juan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Don Blitori
Don Juan
hey, im a new djer here..but i just thought i would start off with posting some contact shtuff..
icq - 94805957
msn - [email protected]
icq - 94805957
msn - [email protected]
BadBoy10605
Don Juan
Hello Everyone. I'm kinda new to the discussion board, but I'm not a stranger to sosuave.com. Just like most of you, I'm full of great information, and willing to help anyone that asks for it.
AoL/CS: BadBoy10605 (@cs.com)
ICQ: 154631476
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AoL/CS: BadBoy10605 (@cs.com)
ICQ: 154631476
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Man Of Adventure
Master Don Juan
Hey guys, thought Id like to add some extra insight.
MSN: [email protected].
Later
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Stop pursuing, and make them be on the chase.-MOA
MSN: [email protected].
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Stop pursuing, and make them be on the chase.-MOA
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Specter
Senior Don Juan
Large Mike
Don Juan
mail: [email protected]
icq: 46292670
I am willing to help anyone who needs it.
plus Im very interesting to talk to.
icq: 46292670
I am willing to help anyone who needs it.
plus Im very interesting to talk to.
Ronin
Senior Don Juan
MSN: Please let me know that ur from here...so i know who u are
..
Can wait to give some help and recive some in turn. I just added most of the MSn adresses that are on here so u now who i am.
Hit me up on MSN:
[email protected]
Ronin
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Can wait to give some help and recive some in turn. I just added most of the MSn adresses that are on here so u now who i am.
Hit me up on MSN:
[email protected]
Ronin
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.