"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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- Thread starter CaptainSlinky
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
AIM: HangTen3000
email:[email protected]
I'll give advice to anyone, even if i dunno you!
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email:[email protected]
I'll give advice to anyone, even if i dunno you!
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AIM: HangTen3000
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Havent really posted in a while, whats up?
AIM: daplaya1
Email: [email protected]
WUWD: You'll give advice to anyone, but does that mean you'll be helping them out any? haha jk
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AIM: DaPlaya1
DJ: ABM
E-Mail: [email protected]
Don Juaning it since 10-14-2001
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AIM: daplaya1
Email: [email protected]
WUWD: You'll give advice to anyone, but does that mean you'll be helping them out any? haha jk
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-Andrew
AIM: DaPlaya1
DJ: ABM
E-Mail: [email protected]
Don Juaning it since 10-14-2001
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AIM: adimex01 and levels ffr
ICQ: 65287451
E-Mail: [email protected] or [email protected] (both are the same really)
IM me if u wanna talk
ICQ: 65287451
E-Mail: [email protected] or [email protected] (both are the same really)
IM me if u wanna talk
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
EclipseGSX
Don Juan
Scott
AOL/AIM: SPorts0705
AOL/AIM: SPorts0705
Goldenboy
Don Juan
hey people, its in my sig. but w/e its cool...
AIM: AMOS145WIN
always look'n to give advice as well as get advice, so holla, lol.....
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AIM: AMOS145WIN
AND THAN I SAW HER STAND'N THERE/WITH GREEN EYES AND LONG BLOND HAIR/SHE WAS'NT WEAR'N UNDEAR WEAR/ATLEAST I PRAY THAT SHE MIGHT BE THE ONE/MAYBE WE'D HAVE SOME FUN/MAYBE WE'D WATCH THE SUN RISE/ BUT THAT NIGHT I LEARNED SOME GIRLS TRY TO HARD/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/SOME GIRLS TRY TOO HARD---BliNk182
"IF I WAS A CHICK ,ID FU*K ME,WOULD'NT YOU??? OH YEA!!!"---ME
"KEEP YOUR PIMP HAND STRONG"---ME
AIM: AMOS145WIN
always look'n to give advice as well as get advice, so holla, lol.....
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AIM: AMOS145WIN
AND THAN I SAW HER STAND'N THERE/WITH GREEN EYES AND LONG BLOND HAIR/SHE WAS'NT WEAR'N UNDEAR WEAR/ATLEAST I PRAY THAT SHE MIGHT BE THE ONE/MAYBE WE'D HAVE SOME FUN/MAYBE WE'D WATCH THE SUN RISE/ BUT THAT NIGHT I LEARNED SOME GIRLS TRY TO HARD/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/NA'NA'NA/SOME GIRLS TRY TOO HARD---BliNk182
"IF I WAS A CHICK ,ID FU*K ME,WOULD'NT YOU??? OH YEA!!!"---ME
"KEEP YOUR PIMP HAND STRONG"---ME
Hollywood
New Member
Whats up dude. I kind of enw to the discussion room
but you can e-mail at [email protected] or IM me at Live3003. Later. THat is also for any hgihgschool DJ's out tehre, we need to keep us alvie and be tehre for each toher.
but you can e-mail at [email protected] or IM me at Live3003. Later. THat is also for any hgihgschool DJ's out tehre, we need to keep us alvie and be tehre for each toher.
CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
This is great, keep em' coming guys!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Don Blitori
Don Juan
hey, im a new djer here..but i just thought i would start off with posting some contact shtuff..
icq - 94805957
msn - [email protected]
icq - 94805957
msn - [email protected]
BadBoy10605
Don Juan
Hello Everyone. I'm kinda new to the discussion board, but I'm not a stranger to sosuave.com. Just like most of you, I'm full of great information, and willing to help anyone that asks for it.
AoL/CS: BadBoy10605 (@cs.com)
ICQ: 154631476
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AoL/CS: BadBoy10605 (@cs.com)
ICQ: 154631476
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Man Of Adventure
Master Don Juan
Hey guys, thought Id like to add some extra insight.
MSN: [email protected].
Later
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Stop pursuing, and make them be on the chase.-MOA
MSN: [email protected].
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Stop pursuing, and make them be on the chase.-MOA
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Specter
Senior Don Juan
Large Mike
Don Juan
mail: [email protected]
icq: 46292670
I am willing to help anyone who needs it.
plus Im very interesting to talk to.
icq: 46292670
I am willing to help anyone who needs it.
plus Im very interesting to talk to.
Ronin
Senior Don Juan
MSN: Please let me know that ur from here...so i know who u are
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Can wait to give some help and recive some in turn. I just added most of the MSn adresses that are on here so u now who i am.
Hit me up on MSN:
[email protected]
Ronin
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Can wait to give some help and recive some in turn. I just added most of the MSn adresses that are on here so u now who i am.
Hit me up on MSN:
[email protected]
Ronin
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.