“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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High maintenance women, a new standard (plague) courtesy of social media

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90% of the women are so influenced from social media that the life style they desire is basically what 20 years ago was "rich people life style".

The fetish for travelling, eating out in exclusive places, non stop attention in terms of picture and social exposition.
A desired life style based on social flexing to those nearby, especially the other women.

Make-up, nails, designer clothes, fashion till even a bottomless wallet starts to wrinkle like the scrotum of a 90 years old grandpa.

And it's not even just about the money, it's about being on the move and perform non stop even the nap time should be planned and executed to be photo worthy.

I'm trying to compare the current state of things with the mid 2000s when I was used to travel and meet girls around Europe in my early 20s...most of them were wearing jeans and a t-shirt, almost no make-up and natural nails...they were happy to just sit on the bench at the park or eat an ice cream together.
None wanted to catch a plane to bali or rush to that new restaurant where you have to book 10 days in advance.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm trying to compare the current state of things with the mid 2000s when I was used to travel and meet girls around Europe in my early 20s...most of them were wearing jeans and a t-shirt, almost no make-up and natural nails...
Hunting cooter in rural Romania is the male equivalent of women seeking husband material in the trailer parks outside Tacoma... A one-way route to immense disappointment
 

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Hunting cooter in rural Romania is the male equivalent of women seeking husband material in the trailer parks outside Tacoma... A one-way route to immense disappointment
Oh come on, you know damn well it leads to lost body parts not just flaccid "disappointment".

Calling dibs on trademarking "The Green River Hostel"
 
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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90% of the women are so influenced from social media that the life style they desire is basically what 20 years ago was "rich people life style".

The fetish for travelling, eating out in exclusive places, non stop attention in terms of picture and social exposition.
A desired life style based on social flexing to those nearby, especially the other women.

Make-up, nails, designer clothes, fashion till even a bottomless wallet starts to wrinkle like the scrotum of a 90 years old grandpa.

And it's not even just about the money, it's about being on the move and perform non stop even the nap time should be planned and executed to be photo worthy.

I'm trying to compare the current state of things with the mid 2000s when I was used to travel and meet girls around Europe in my early 20s...most of them were wearing jeans and a t-shirt, almost no make-up and natural nails...they were happy to just sit on the bench at the park or eat an ice cream together.
None wanted to catch a plane to bali or rush to that new restaurant where you have to book 10 days in advance.
This comes mainly from low self esteem for women + male thirst

if guys would not put up with bull****, then women would change their rhetoric
 

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Yeah to me it's a major turn off if the girl is taking photos of our food and stuff. A little bit is okay I guess. I remember I blew up on my ex about taking photos of our philly cheesesteaks once haha, I felt bad about it later. She wasn't too bad with it. But there is a point where girls gotta understand...

Thats why I say for the majority of the US cities, its probably tough bc especially in Soflo, if u dont have the cash, u aint getting actual hotties. U might pull some mid or even cute chicks but the hotties are getting yacht party propositions on a tuesday. Ask me how I know lol. Winners take all.

Thats why I just go for milfs these days, less furious effort for nothing. If I had some serious dough, I would do the same thing. The other thing that money does is it increases short-term effectiveness. Of course these girls want u for the money and status, u can use it for fun but yeah none of these girls would be good GFs. Having money saves u the pride hit that occurs when ur broke and thirsting. Money makes them come to you and not ****-test u as hard and be as "unavailable".

When it comes to finding someone real though it's better to pretend u don't have much IMO. Don't say I own my own biz, say "im working for someone" etc. Basically reverse-sh!t-test women by pretending to not own much, have much going on, etc. Weed them out. Once they've proven themselves and walked through the desert, u can slowly start unraveling the oasis that is actually there. That's why the guys who met their shorties when they were broke do have a special kind of love.
 

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Hi Fortune,
Nearly choked on my Coco Pops when I read ".....a bottomless wallet starts to wrinkle like the scrotum of a 90 years old grandpa."You won't get that on Chat GPT.
 

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Even women past 60 want a man that's 6'5 and packing millions. Some think they're IG models.

Well it is true if you give a man 5 million dollars, a Lamborghini, a lit blue-checked IG with 100k followers, and a penthouse suite downtown, his dating life will improve exponentially.

When women flake, 255/256 times she just got a better bid or bidder. Chad and Tyrone offering a walk in the park is different than Bob and John offering it. Why do you think women watch Sprinkle Sprinkle?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Again, this boils down to NOT being her preferred choice. Rp cliche, beta Brad gets a rule book, Chad gets to make up the rules as he goes...

The only way to avoid this is by dealing with HIGHLY interested women and nothing else.
 

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these materialistic sl ut s , They want a rich cuck. end of story.


the normal ones who want Chad, are fully modest , good women.
 

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Even women past 60 want a man that's 6'5 and packing millions. Some think they're IG models.

Well it is true if you give a man 5 million dollars, a Lamborghini, a lit blue-checked IG with 100k followers, and a penthouse suite downtown, his dating life will improve exponentially.

When women flake, 255/256 times she just got a better bid or bidder. Chad and Tyrone offering a walk in the park is different than Bob and John offering it. Why do you think women watch Sprinkle Sprinkle?
you guys are mainly talking about dating apps, girls there are way different than girls that you can meet in real life

most girls are not on dating apps, and even if they are there most are not that active. An issues with dating apps is actually that most women are not that active and most rarely actually go out with anyone from dating apps

sure, there is also a subset of girls that are active and go out with the highest bidder … but this is just a subset of the girls there
 

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you guys are mainly talking about dating apps, girls there are way different than girls that you can meet in real life
Not really. They re the same girls. Even if they are not on dating apps they are on Instagram, Tip Tok and other social media platforms.
 

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Not really. They re the same girls. Even if they are not on dating apps they are on Instagram, Tip Tok and other social media platforms.
Yes, but girls that are active for real on dating apps are different than the normal ones

active Dating apps girls are not the same as non dating app girls, different animal altogether

entitlement and bad behavior is extremely worse on dating apps vs real world, even for the girls that are active on dating app. They behave way worse on dating apps vs if you would meet them in real life

most active girls on dating apps are either there for dopamine hits that matching with guys they find attractive give or they have socializing issues. Those that are attention seeking are there for the attention and maybe if she finds some really amazing guy might go out with him ( rare though ), and the non socialized ones are problematic to talk with or date

if you are at least average looking as a a woman you only have to go out and things will happen, and that is what the quality is very low on dating apps. Most of the girls that actually look for something are the cave troll ones :)

and also, another misconception about dating apps is that usually girls so many right swipes per day that yours will just be buried with very low probabilities for women to actually see it. That is why her activity is very important on dating apps

unless you buy the super premium packages that prioritize your like, then you have a way better shot with the least active ones that might be a better quality :)

so if you guys are serious about making online dating apps work, put the money in both the super premium subscription that prioritizes likes + super high quality pictures
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Like it or not, caring about appearance, presentation, aesthetics, and competing for attention are factors within feminine energy. it’s all about being seen, admired, and validated.
 

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When women flake, 255/256 times she just got a better bid or bidder. Chad and Tyrone offering a walk in the park is different than Bob and John offering it. Why do you think women watch Sprinkle Sprinkle?
It's OVER for OutbidAuctionCels.
 

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Actually, the past decade has been one of those strange periods in history where crap like this



Has been mistaken for an advanced way of existing by EVERYONE. I'm hardly the first here at SS to notice https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...wifey-blows-up-like-this.284714/#post-3169999
What's going on is society is on the verge of collapsing (for real this time), people are checking out, and these youtubers are crying over revenue loss

In addition to everything else we have some giant object (31/Atlas) intelligently maneuvering through space towards earth and these people are concerned about fashion lmao.

WhErE Are mY sUBscIbERs??!?
 
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