High maintenance women, a new standard (plague) courtesy of social media

[Bigpapa]

Like it or not, caring about appearance, presentation, aesthetics, and competing for attention are factors within feminine energy. it’s all about being seen, admired, and validated.

Male beauty kinda means that there are a lot of effeminate features

 

[Solomon]

I've talked to my cousin about this, my cousin is a guy who is 6'2, A really good guys guy, upstanding dude who moves with morals and isn't on some FBoy shyt in good shape makes over $105K a year at 35 years old(Top 5% yes even in the midwest a 100K will not get you in the top 1% in 2025) etc. He used to be a simp and after 2 failed relationships in the last 5 years, he is now "Mr Redpill". To the point that I had to tell him to chill with the overconsumption of redpill content on youtube. The main thing we both agreed is that social media ever since covid has hyper-accelerated women's delusions and dating etc.

My Cousin (lets call him "Todd")has 4 dates lined up tomorrow. He's not rich but for where we live that is great money and puts him in the top 5%(once again). He meets 90% of women via OLD his pictures are him on the beach without a shirt, 1 at a football game, 2 of him with friends at a nice restaurant etc. Todd is not a flashy type, the only way you know he's got money is if you go to his place (he lives in a new condo etc). Why am I saying all this? Todd is not looking to just smash or pump and dump he's done that, at 35 he now is looking for a wife and having a hell of a time. We know the problems OLD has, but for him his issue is more nuanced, meaning most of the women he meets don't bring anything to the table outside of their baggage and they have high expectations of the lifestyle. Todd is meticulous when it comes to vetting women, so many don't make the cut. He's even lowered his standards because he feels getting a woman who is less attractive will make her more loyal when that hasn't been the case. He now doesn't give a shyt and wants the hottest of the hot

My point is this 20 years ago Todd would have been of the market, because he's a catch but in 2025 he has to pump and dump beause these women are not wifey material and don't bring anything to the table besides a wet mouth.

 

[Bigpapa]

I've talked to my cousin about this, my cousin is a guy who is 6'2, A really good guys guy, upstanding dude who moves with morals and isn't on some FBoy shyt in good shape makes over $105K a yea at 35 years old etc. He used to be a simp and after 2 failed relationships in the last 5 years, he is now "Mr Redpill". To the point that I had to tell him to chill with the overconsumption of redpill content on youtube. The main thing we both agreed is that social media ever since covid has hyper-accelerated women's delusion and daitng etc.

My Cousin (lets call him "Todd")has 4 dates lined up tomorrow. He's not rich (although 105K in the North is nothing to sneeze at) but for where we live that is great money and puts him in the top 0.9%. He meets 90% of women via OLD his pictures are him on the beach without a shirt, 1 at a football game, 2 of him with friends at a nice restaurants etc. Todd is not a flashy type, the only way you know he's got money is if you go to his place (he lives in a new condo etc). Why am I saying all this? Todd is not looking to just smash or pump and dump he's done that, at 35 he now is looking for a wife and having a hell of a time. We know the problems OLD has, but for him his issue is more nuanced meaning most of the women he meets don't bring anything to the table outside of their baggage and they have high expectations of the lifestyle. Todd is metilcious when it comes to vetting women, so many don't make the cut. He's even lowered his standards because he feels getting a woman who is less attractive will make her more loyal when that hasn't been the case. He now doesn't give a shyt and wants the hottest of the hot

My point is this 20 years ago Todd would have been of the market, because he's a catch but in 2025 he has to pump and dump beause these women are not wifey material and don't bring anything to the table besides a wet mouth.

Feel the situation, and more or less is kinda the same I am going through

if you wanna get laid, best times ever. If you want more than to get laid, it kinda sucks

 

[Solomon]

Feel the situation, and more or less is kinda the same I am going through

if you wanna get laid, best times ever. If you want more than to get laid, it kinda sucks

Exactly so for guys complaining about getting laid not to sound arrogant but how? even if you are broke ain't got a job these chicks are giving coochie out like candy. I get it some guys have a tough time, I remember talking to a former mentor of mine and he said that in the 90s if you wanted to meet women you had to go outside. You couldn't sit at home and just sit on the toilet and swipe ande match. I get it dating isn't easy but it certainly has become easier in some aspects (getting laid, online dating if you know how to max it etc) and harder (finding a g/f/wife, dealing with a woman who is loyal etc)