"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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High interest in person....and no reply for texts?

ubershredder

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Hi guys..First post :D

A little confused about this girl at work..When I talk to her she gives me a lot of indications that she's really interested,laughs a lot at nearly everything with a big open mouthed laugh(havent seen her do that with anyone else) and turns a little red,rubs her wrists and exposes her palms etc. but when I text her..there's no reply.

I texted her two weeks ago,no reply ..so I thought screw it,ignored her for ..then she talked to me at lunch asked me if I was really busy.I said yeah a bit...I actually wanted to ask her out after work when but there were other people around.
Thought I would ask her after when it's leaving time..but I was swamped with work and had to stay back alone in the office,I texted her during a 5 minute break cause I was bored with a basic whats up message with a name I tease her with.. and also If she replied I thought I could ask her if she wanted to hang out...but no reply!

She's a pretty shy girl,doesnt really talk to a lot of people readily,she hangs out are with just this one other girl(in office)...

So is this just her being shy?should I call her up tomorrow and ask her if she wants to hang out,or wait and ask her in person...or should I just forget this girl and move on. I really want to call her up and ask her,but I want to see her reaction too (so asking her in person maybe better) and calling her up might seem as if I'm very needy (yuck!)...sigh oneitis...
 

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Set your phone to receive message reports, then you won't worry whether someone has received your text.
 

COD

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did u ask if she is able to receive text messages..........eliminate the obvious and your left with the facts.
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ubershredder

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I know she can revieve texts,thats for sure. I guess I'll ask her out for coffee sometime during the week...
 

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ubershredder said:
..When I talk to her she gives me a lot of indications that she's really interested,laughs a lot at nearly everything with a big open mouthed laugh(havent seen her do that with anyone else) and turns a little red,rubs her wrists and exposes her palms etc. but when I text her..there's no reply.

Tough one...................... Usually when they rub their wrists and expose their palms it's a sign that they're crazy about you. I can't figure out why she's not relying to your texts. Text her and find out.



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can someone explain more about the rubbib wrists? exposing palms?
 
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