"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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High interest in person....and no reply for texts?

ubershredder

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Hi guys..First post :D

A little confused about this girl at work..When I talk to her she gives me a lot of indications that she's really interested,laughs a lot at nearly everything with a big open mouthed laugh(havent seen her do that with anyone else) and turns a little red,rubs her wrists and exposes her palms etc. but when I text her..there's no reply.

I texted her two weeks ago,no reply ..so I thought screw it,ignored her for ..then she talked to me at lunch asked me if I was really busy.I said yeah a bit...I actually wanted to ask her out after work when but there were other people around.
Thought I would ask her after when it's leaving time..but I was swamped with work and had to stay back alone in the office,I texted her during a 5 minute break cause I was bored with a basic whats up message with a name I tease her with.. and also If she replied I thought I could ask her if she wanted to hang out...but no reply!

She's a pretty shy girl,doesnt really talk to a lot of people readily,she hangs out are with just this one other girl(in office)...

So is this just her being shy?should I call her up tomorrow and ask her if she wants to hang out,or wait and ask her in person...or should I just forget this girl and move on. I really want to call her up and ask her,but I want to see her reaction too (so asking her in person maybe better) and calling her up might seem as if I'm very needy (yuck!)...sigh oneitis...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Set your phone to receive message reports, then you won't worry whether someone has received your text.
 

COD

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did u ask if she is able to receive text messages..........eliminate the obvious and your left with the facts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ubershredder

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I know she can revieve texts,thats for sure. I guess I'll ask her out for coffee sometime during the week...
 

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ubershredder said:
..When I talk to her she gives me a lot of indications that she's really interested,laughs a lot at nearly everything with a big open mouthed laugh(havent seen her do that with anyone else) and turns a little red,rubs her wrists and exposes her palms etc. but when I text her..there's no reply.

Tough one...................... Usually when they rub their wrists and expose their palms it's a sign that they're crazy about you. I can't figure out why she's not relying to your texts. Text her and find out.



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can someone explain more about the rubbib wrists? exposing palms?
 
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