"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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High interest in person....and no reply for texts?

ubershredder

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Hi guys..First post :D

A little confused about this girl at work..When I talk to her she gives me a lot of indications that she's really interested,laughs a lot at nearly everything with a big open mouthed laugh(havent seen her do that with anyone else) and turns a little red,rubs her wrists and exposes her palms etc. but when I text her..there's no reply.

I texted her two weeks ago,no reply ..so I thought screw it,ignored her for ..then she talked to me at lunch asked me if I was really busy.I said yeah a bit...I actually wanted to ask her out after work when but there were other people around.
Thought I would ask her after when it's leaving time..but I was swamped with work and had to stay back alone in the office,I texted her during a 5 minute break cause I was bored with a basic whats up message with a name I tease her with.. and also If she replied I thought I could ask her if she wanted to hang out...but no reply!

She's a pretty shy girl,doesnt really talk to a lot of people readily,she hangs out are with just this one other girl(in office)...

So is this just her being shy?should I call her up tomorrow and ask her if she wants to hang out,or wait and ask her in person...or should I just forget this girl and move on. I really want to call her up and ask her,but I want to see her reaction too (so asking her in person maybe better) and calling her up might seem as if I'm very needy (yuck!)...sigh oneitis...
 

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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Set your phone to receive message reports, then you won't worry whether someone has received your text.
 

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did u ask if she is able to receive text messages..........eliminate the obvious and your left with the facts.
 

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ubershredder

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I know she can revieve texts,thats for sure. I guess I'll ask her out for coffee sometime during the week...
 

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ubershredder said:
..When I talk to her she gives me a lot of indications that she's really interested,laughs a lot at nearly everything with a big open mouthed laugh(havent seen her do that with anyone else) and turns a little red,rubs her wrists and exposes her palms etc. but when I text her..there's no reply.

Tough one...................... Usually when they rub their wrists and expose their palms it's a sign that they're crazy about you. I can't figure out why she's not relying to your texts. Text her and find out.



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can someone explain more about the rubbib wrists? exposing palms?
 
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