"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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High intensity cardio at the gym

bud_2005

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It sounds like high intensity cardio should be used for fat loss. I used to run sprints but now its getting colder out and I would prefer to move it indoors. Where in the gym do should I perform high intensity cardio w/o looking like a goon?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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int3l

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jump rope? it's pretty good if you can keep the rotations up for 30 minutes or longer. 80-120 rotations per minute i think it was.
 

Throttle

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why are you worried about what you'll look like in a gym?
 

Warboss Alex

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Throttle said:
why are you worried about what you'll look like in a gym?
some people have 'gym cred', or some sense of self-consciousness/dignity

fortunately I have neither. :D

(and even if I did have any it'd disappear entirely when I say I've got Whitesnake on my music player)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm thinking of the looks I would get running 50 yard sprints around the gym track. I know I shouldn't care though
 

Throttle

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Warboss Alex said:
I've got Whitesnake on my music player
I'm jealous... reminds me, gotta re-rip Greatest Hits (stupid music phone).

even if I did have any it'd disappear entirely
That's what my Journey/Steve Perry/Foreigner/Bad English mix is for.....


bud_2005 said:
I'm thinking of the looks I would get running 50 yard sprints around the gym track.
eh, i see that all the time at my uni gym.
 
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