"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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High income women easier to game?

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mrgoodstuff said:
How the fvck white collar going to "compete" with the club promotor, the frat boy, the weed man or coke dealer in that environment?
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It’s a great question. I’ll defer to the others on that.

I go to an upscale club where being well dressed is appreciated and not necessarily seen as a liability. I also don’t hit on staff, so gaming “hired guns” is way outside my expertise.

I’m the chill (but nerdy) engineer. I just own it, and it is what it is. I realistically can’t compete with the doorman, guy bartender, or some random 6’5” tatted Chad. But that’s ok. I do what I can.

(Off topic, I wasn’t knocking white collar guys before. I am one myself lol.)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mike32ct said:
It’s a great question. I’ll defer to the others on that.

I go to an upscale club where being well dressed is appreciated and not necessarily seen as a liability. I also don’t hit on staff, so gaming “hired guns” is way outside my expertise.

I’m the chill (but nerdy) engineer. I just own it, and it is what it is. I realistically can’t compete with the doorman, guy bartender, or some random 6’5” tatted Chad. But that’s ok. I do what I can.

(Off topic, I was not knocking white collar guys before. I am one myself.)
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You dont think a certain type of woman appreciate your intellect and finds you more appealing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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