"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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High income women easier to game?

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mrgoodstuff said:
How the fvck white collar going to "compete" with the club promotor, the frat boy, the weed man or coke dealer in that environment?
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It’s a great question. I’ll defer to the others on that.

I go to an upscale club where being well dressed is appreciated and not necessarily seen as a liability. I also don’t hit on staff, so gaming “hired guns” is way outside my expertise.

I’m the chill (but nerdy) engineer. I just own it, and it is what it is. I realistically can’t compete with the doorman, guy bartender, or some random 6’5” tatted Chad. But that’s ok. I do what I can.

(Off topic, I wasn’t knocking white collar guys before. I am one myself lol.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mike32ct said:
It’s a great question. I’ll defer to the others on that.

I go to an upscale club where being well dressed is appreciated and not necessarily seen as a liability. I also don’t hit on staff, so gaming “hired guns” is way outside my expertise.

I’m the chill (but nerdy) engineer. I just own it, and it is what it is. I realistically can’t compete with the doorman, guy bartender, or some random 6’5” tatted Chad. But that’s ok. I do what I can.

(Off topic, I was not knocking white collar guys before. I am one myself.)
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You dont think a certain type of woman appreciate your intellect and finds you more appealing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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