"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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High IL replies but very slow response

PoZest

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I sort of nexted this girl I was texting, as she'd often take hours to reply back, sometimes not until the next day.
I find it hard to get a real bit of flirting to flow if the reply is sometimes hours, and sometimes instant.
I decided a week ago to next this one as I saw that she was online on the app but not reading my message, which she replied to the day after, so I haven't texted since.
But looking over the messages, the responses were quite high IL, laughing and asking Qs etc, and if there was no 24 hour wait in between the replies sometimes, I'd see no problems.
Should I be put off by this, or will I continue to initiate conversation, knowing that sometimes I won't get a reply for a while?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fireballs

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Put her on the back burner for now and pursue other girls .. if she reaches out, try and set-up a date. If she gives any other answer than a definite 'yes' , put her at the back of the line again .. repeat.
 

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Have you met her yet? Stop playing tiddlywinks with messages and get her out on a date.
 

The Duke

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You never know whats going on with these girls. Busy with life, entertaining other dudes, still not over the last guy they were with, put off by the dating app, etc. Go for the number and make a phone call and set up a date. Thats all you can do.
 
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