I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wait a minute....are you saying you can simply over train? I'm not really following.There’s the make break point to homeostasis in the body.
Movement is key. If you are working out, you can’t tax your body daily. You can’t do chronic cardio and stay healthy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It’s a touchy subject here so I steer away from it in most cases.Wait a minute....are you saying you can simply over train? I'm not really following.
I have 1 day rest in between workouts for recovery.It’s a touchy subject here so I steer away from it in most cases.
But yes. Especially if you are endurance athlete. If you are just a bodybuilding type weight lifter, then I can’t speak for that. I do MSP lifting so it’s only twice a week. If I do more than that, it taps me way to much. I don’t care how much sleep I get.
As your body seeks homeostasis at all levels, it’s a significant amount of stress not only on your endocrine system but your sympathetic nervous system.
I do the fist test. I make a fist and squeeze as hard as I can. If it is strong, I’m good to go. This is a measure of the level of homeostasis of your central nervous system.
Endurance athletes suffer severe body stress. That’s why world class trainers these days only do one hard day a week. Miles = wear and tear if done ridiculously. Some guys use to do 15-20 hours a week.
I only have one day of 4-6 miles with an 80lb pack.
I do the same. I do it for physical performance. I don’t care about slabs of muscle. LolI have 1 day rest in between workouts for recovery.
But mine is short workouts, max is 1 hour per session averaging abt 45 mins then I stop.
No intention of bulking up, just keeping lean.
Slabs of muscles would be counter productive when I go solo hunting.I do the same. I do it for physical performance. I don’t care about slabs of muscle. Lol
You are spot on. It’s useless mass. My goal is always functional as well. My make my life pretty rough as it is. I have to pack out game meat a minimum of two miles up and down mountains.Slabs of muscles would be counter productive when I go solo hunting.
I'm not into being aesthetically pleasing, my build is purely out of a need to do something physically.
I'm guessing u r the same too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.