"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hide or not hide that you are picking her up?

Which strategy do you use?

  • Always direct approach.

    Votes: 1 6.7%

  • Always indirect approach.

    Votes: 1 6.7%

  • Half & half.

    Votes: 8 53.3%

  • Most of them direct, a little indirect.

    Votes: 2 13.3%

  • Most of them indirect, a little direct.

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • Total voters
    15
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Starriol

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I mean... there are several schools of thought with this.

Some guys say "try to make it look like you are just being a friendly chatty stranger".

Other says "be a man, do it directly and don't pretend you are interested in her purse color".

I mean... what are the pros and cons you think?

IMO, being indirect has the advantadge of defusing a lot of ***** shields because a girl doesn't get all defensive.

By the time she realizes you are picking her up, she's already into you (or she should be if you did your game allright).

On the other hand, I think it shows lots of balls to just go for it and say straight, this is the most minimalistic approach, of course "hey girl, I'm busy right now, but would love to chat with you, what's your #??".

I had success with both approaches. I don't think one is better, they are just different, some are better sometimes, other, some other times.

What is YOUR opinion?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dark Haired Alpha

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Come on, she is going to know what you're doing anyways. By hiding it, you will just loose her respect.
 
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Bonhomme

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Unask the question.

It's not about directness or indirectness, but about finesse. You could be making out within minutes of meeting or a subtle as can be.

Some of the best pickups are when you both know what's going on, but it's entirely unspoken. Whatever the flow of things dictates ~
 
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Brian20o2

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The best thing is to be direct but inderect, meaning you show your intensions in your actions but you dont go up and say "hey wanna Fu**" all while being playfull and funloving.
 
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reyalp

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it's definitely a game of subtleties.

i won't come right out and state my intentions....they know what they are.

however, if a woman asks me why i want to see her/why i'm hanging out with her, i usually tell her i have nothing but the worst intentions. they think i'm joking, too :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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How to tell definitively whether a woman is married or avalable.....




























Can her husband see you sarging his wife? :p
 
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