"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Hickey situation

muffin

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2008
Messages
34
Reaction score
0
Location
Canada
I've got a hickey and I need to get rid of it asap. Is there anything I can do other

than concealing it with a bandage?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
Put some make up on it.
 

Scars

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
2,126
Reaction score
1,002
Age
36
Location
Phoenix
I just had this problem actually.. still kind of do. What I did was apply ice as soon as I could, it helped a little but not much. Then I looked online for a few tips and I found that rubbing it with a brush will help unclog the blood vessels so I did that, but it seemed to only temporarily help. What you really need to do: Give it time. I just bailed on a girl two days in row because of this stupid dillema, but I came up with some pretty legit excuses, and I keep reassuring her I really want to see her and I'm not ****ing around. It's almost completely gone right now but still a little noticable. If all else fails get a lady friend to cover it up with some makeup.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

true romance

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 30, 2006
Messages
188
Reaction score
5
Location
Paradise
boile an egg. peel the shell
wrap the egg in a thin towel then apply to the hickey. Do it while the egg still warm.

the egg will suck the blood...
 
Top