"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hickey situation

muffin

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I've got a hickey and I need to get rid of it asap. Is there anything I can do other

than concealing it with a bandage?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Put some make up on it.
 

Scars

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I just had this problem actually.. still kind of do. What I did was apply ice as soon as I could, it helped a little but not much. Then I looked online for a few tips and I found that rubbing it with a brush will help unclog the blood vessels so I did that, but it seemed to only temporarily help. What you really need to do: Give it time. I just bailed on a girl two days in row because of this stupid dillema, but I came up with some pretty legit excuses, and I keep reassuring her I really want to see her and I'm not ****ing around. It's almost completely gone right now but still a little noticable. If all else fails get a lady friend to cover it up with some makeup.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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true romance

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boile an egg. peel the shell
wrap the egg in a thin towel then apply to the hickey. Do it while the egg still warm.

the egg will suck the blood...
 
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